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mastermagican
May 12, 2007, 09:18 PM
OK I am sceard to sleep in my room alone any one has some advice?

Fr_Chuck
May 12, 2007, 09:21 PM
Why? What is scaring you.

mastermagican
May 13, 2007, 06:06 AM
A lot of things

J_9
May 13, 2007, 06:18 AM
Let's start with...

How old are you?

Tell us some of the things that are scaring you, such as... Not just "a lot of things" we can't help you with that.

noeymc
May 13, 2007, 07:12 PM
To help you need more info like would it be the dark and shadows?

zg100
May 13, 2007, 09:51 PM
ok i am sceard to sleep in my room alone any one has some advice?
What scares you?

mastermagican
May 14, 2007, 03:16 PM
My grandma died and 2 summers a ago I was going to go see her but I found out she passed away she had hart falirear so I dident go and now I told theis dumb guy who is very annoying and he said her gosht will come ut I don't blife in gosht and whene I go in my room I see the closets lights are on when I leave them off

Fr_Chuck
May 14, 2007, 03:28 PM
First ghosts if you believe in them, don't harm people, they may make a few sounds, move a few things, hide some things, but there just is no history of any harming anyone.
Plus of course not, some guy told you this or that, first if a ghost was gong to "get" you they would do it awake as well as asleep, and most of my ghost sightigs have always been in the day time. And your granma loved you, right, she may have wanted to see you, but she is not going

So the closet lights, family members, Perhaps bad wriing, but so what, what if a ghost was turning the lights on, except to run an electric bill up, a light on is not going to hurt you.

EllieBrown
May 14, 2007, 05:56 PM
I used to be freaked out of ghosts... and then I remembered that if they are ghosts, they can't touch you because they're transparent! Right? Plus, why in the world would your Grandma EVER want to hurt you? Is it just being alone in YOUR room that frightens you?

mastermagican
May 14, 2007, 07:27 PM
My sisters lights come on too and we have a new house brand new we are the frist to live in so no one died in the past in the house cose it is new I do sleep in my room but I am scard not only the closet I keep on thinking of stuff I don't want to and some tinhg might pop out or scarcy stuff my miind can't get off that

EllieBrown
May 14, 2007, 08:17 PM
Ugh, that sucks! That is how it was for me in 6th grade after I read all of these RL Stine Fear Street books! It was horrible! Maybe you can put on music to distract you? Or what about like a book on a tape so you can listen to it while falling asleep and maybe stay focused on that instead of those thoughts racing around your mind? And there is nothing wrong with sleeping with the lights on or with a night light! I know there is really no cure, but I hope maybe these ideas can either help or trigger some of your own ideas

Musical Justice
May 23, 2007, 01:21 AM
My dear, perhaps all of this pent up fear, aggression and confusion is what is effecting your electrical systems. Sometimes a person has a certain electricity around them because they have strong emotions they have not handled properly. Don't worry so much friend, the fear is what may be charging the whole environment around you and may also be affecting your interactions at school. I suggest relaxing for fifteen-thirty minutes a day. Just sit back in your bed and let the thoughts scroll through your head like a marquee on a computer monitor. Your grandmother isn't there to hurt you, if anything she senses your distress and is doing her best to comfort you. Please look to your intuition instead of your fear, it will get you a lot further in life. Much love.

Nonagon
May 24, 2007, 08:03 PM
It's probably all in your head. There's a logical explanation for everything. (Except for God cause He's good like that.) Just don't think about it. Clear your mind and focus on something that makes you happy. Any creeks you hear are most likely from the house expanding or contracting when the temperature changes. Also, the closet light. Someone else in your family couldve turned it on. That or you just think you turned it off but really didn't. Anyway, if you can get past it psychologically, then nothing will be wrong physically.:cool: