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steph2047
May 11, 2007, 10:24 PM
My best friend was dating thi guy and she kept cheating on him now its over. I began talking to him as I friend because I cared deeply about his feeling during this time in his life. I had been talking to him frequently an began to fall in love with him he has an awesome personality he is a great father he then out of the blue it all stopped One day I sent him a text and asked him what did I do he said he felt as though I was trying to get too close to him and he was not looking for a relationship. I need some kind advice as to whether I should leave him alone or continue trying to be his friend and she if there maybe something to build on.

Depressed:confused:

grammadidi
May 11, 2007, 10:30 PM
Sorry, he's already made it quite clear. Leave him alone. Besides, you never, never, NEVER date a guy your best friend has dated.

Didi

AW805
May 11, 2007, 10:34 PM
What part of "he was not looking for a relationship" didn't you get?

talaniman
May 12, 2007, 06:14 AM
Leave the guy alone, he has told you straight up he isn't looking for a relationship.