View Full Version : Shopuld I talk to him? Or just leave it alone?
ST3V3NZBABYZMAMII
May 11, 2007, 07:18 PM
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months we knew each other for a year before we started going out. The day we started going out I met his mom his aunt and his sisters and his brothers. Ever sine there's been problems his aunt doesn't like me for no reason she thinks I made him get into a fight with some boy and she accused me of stealing earrings from her and when she found them she felt real dumb. The day I met his mom she came in the room yelling at me and she kicked me out of the house but then she let me stay and we got to talking. There was a video of his ex girl and him having sex and at the time we were just friend but I knew about it and his mom found out about it just a couple of days before. She thought it was me but then everyone told her it wasn't so she droped it. When I met his dad he was yelling at my boyfriend cause he hasn't been going to school.( the whole month of December we didn't go cause we wanted to be together so bad) and eVer since every time I see his dad he yells at him and talk to us for hours about how school is so important. We never go anywhere we have to stay in his house with his little brother and sister and I have to hear his dad yell at him all the time and we have to make trips to the store like every 20 min. just this passed Monday he decided to run away we were at the gas station and he called his mom and told her about a dedtion and his dad heard and started calling him names. I felt bad and when he got to his stop he told me he didn't want to go hom I told him that we could get something to eat and kill time for a little bit. It was 9 00 when I got hiom and my mom was on the phon with his mom my mom told me that he was never allowed to come to the house anymore and she never wanted to see him again. I told her the story and she punished me for a month and I didn't argue cause I would have seen him in school so it didn't bother me too much at midnight my mom and dad come running into the roon yelling at me and saying all these lies that his mom told them about me. Theybelieved her and not me and then they told me I could never see him again. The next day I saw hima and he told me that he wanted to have a baby. We had sex and he came inside me and then he told me that he would keep in touch with me and not to worry that he was going home mind you that was Tuesday and since then I haven't seen or spoken to him and he deleted me from his myspace and I wrote to him but he never wrote back and her hanst been in school everyone is saying that his dad is doing all of this to keep s apart. Well my question is should I just leave it as us not being together and not talk to him? Or hear him out andf see what he has to say then make my decision? I love him so much I cry every night I don't get to talk to him I miss him so much I always look for him in school
malmatar
May 11, 2007, 08:23 PM
me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months we knew eachother for a year b4 we started going out. the day we started going out i met his mom his aunt and his sisters and his brothers. ever sine theres been problems his aunt doesnt like me for no reason she thinks i made him get into a fight with some boy and she accused me of stealing earrings from her and when she found them she felt real dumb. the day i met his mom she came in the room yelling at me and she kicked me out of the house but then she let me stay and we got to talking. there was a video of his ex girl and him having sex and at the time we were just friend but i knew about it and his mom found out about it just a couple of days b4. she thought it was me but then everyone told her it wasnt so she droped it. when i met his dad he was yelling at my boyfriend cause he hasnt been going to school.( the whole month of december we didnt go cause we wanted to be together so bad) and eVer since everytime i see his dad he yells at him and talk to us for hours about how school is so important. we never go anywhere we have to stay in his house with his little brother and sister and i have to hear his dad yell at him all the time and we have to make trips to the store like every 20 min. just this pased monday he decided to run away we were at the gas station and he called his mom and told her about a dedtion and his dad heard and started calling him names. i felt bad and when he got to his stop he told me he didnt wanna go hom i told him that we could get somthing to eat and kill time for a little bit. it was 9 00 when i got hiom and my mom was on the phon with his mom my mom told me that he was never allowed to come to the house anymore and she never wanted to see him again. i told her the story and she punished me for a month and i didnt argue cause i would of seen him in school so it didnt bother me to much at midnight my mom adn dad come running into the roon yelling at me and saying all these lies that hsi mom told them about me. theybelieved her and not me and then they told me i could never see him again. the next day i saw hima nd he told me that he wanted to have a baby. we had sex and he came inside me and then he told me that he would keep in touch with me and not to worry that he was going home mind you that was tuesday and since then i havnt seen or spoken to him and he deleted me from his myspace and i wrote to him but he never wrote back and her hanst been in school everyone is saying that his dad is doing all of this to keep s apart. well my question is should i just leave it as us not being together and not talk to him? or hear him out andf see what he has to say then make my decision? i love him so much i cry every night i dont get to talk to him i miss him so much i always look for him in school
Dear, get in school, stay in school , your friends Dad is right, education is so important. Educaton is the way of your future, without it you will have nothing but a very hard life. Forget this guy. Stop having sex with him (or any guy for Gods sake)! How old are you anyway? If you were my child I would be more than just yelling at you!
ST3V3NZBABYZMAMII
May 12, 2007, 07:23 AM
I have been going to school since BUT HE Doesn't u see I get out at 12 and he gets out at 2 so when I get out he leaves and I tell him go to school and he's like ill go in next period and we alwayz argue and then I fel bad cause I dun want him to thik I'm making him go in because I dun want him around me or I'm cheating on him. But its alwayz somethig I love him so much and I hate that my parents act like they wernt kids and they didn't have problems in there relationships there's were worst them ours( from what they told me ) and just because he ran away they took it out on me eh I hate my parents and his too