View Full Version : I've stopped crying
MissMod2006
May 10, 2007, 06:14 PM
My fiancé and I have been together for 3 years this September. We, as every relationship does, have our normal fights. I used to cry when we fought and he would leave but now I don't. I love him with all of my heart and I never want us to be apart but I don't know why I don't cry anymore. Does anyone have any ideas on why I have stopped crying?
diya
May 10, 2007, 06:19 PM
You've gotten used to it and each one of us adapts to reactive modes that our body presents before us... I am glad you've stopped crying because as it is crying makes you look vulnerable and people manipulate that situation a lot So good for you and be strong...
robertsqueen
May 10, 2007, 07:20 PM
You have stopped crying because your imune to the hurt. Your body took over and made it so that your tears won't fall for him. I used to cry at every single fight I had with my husband... I don't anymore. But it is okay to cry.. it expresses emotions and also relives the stress on you.
Skell
May 10, 2007, 07:48 PM
Do you see it as a bad thing that you don't cry anymore?
MissMod2006
May 12, 2007, 11:04 AM
Do you see it as a bad thing that you dont cry anymore?
Actually no I don't, why cry every time when you know the same stuff is going to happen? He always comes back after like walking for a few minutes and everything goes back to normal.
gypsy456
May 12, 2007, 11:15 AM
Maybe your relationship is turning into a more mature one... where people just sit and communicate after an argument.
Who knows.
chuff
May 13, 2007, 07:15 PM
As the relationship grew, so did you. You now can argue with a solution in mind as opposed to a possible end. That being said, both of you should try talking it out so that you don't have to yell and cry and he doesn't have to leave.