Plm-tam
May 10, 2007, 05:04 PM
My husband is an alcoholic. One evening about 3 weeks ago he called me to come over and pick him up at his friends house.. And while his friend and I were helping my husband to the car ( because he was drunk ) His friend leaned over my shoulder and said when he goes home and passes out, Come over and See me.. Well, I don't know but the last time I looked in the mirror, I didn't see slut written across my forehead.. The next day I told my husband about it and he said, " Oh, he didn't mean it! Since then my husband has been working a job with him and comes home drunk every night.. And when he does come home he abuses me verbally.. For instance, when I was growing up I was molested by my stepdad.. And my husband knows this.. Well, one night coming home from a drunk, says to me WHY DON'T YOU GO TO YOUR STEPDAD AND HAVE HIM FONDLE YOU, YOU KNOW YOU LIKED IT! Needless to say the cops were called that night, cause I think I could have hurt him real bad.. I have put up with his verbal abuse for over 7 years now and I am at my wits end. My husband considers this guy his BEST FRIEND.. If someone out there has any advice, I would greatly appreciate it. I Think I love him but how can a person love some one like that? Thanks plm-tam