Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and we have had sex a few times but the problem is that I just can't have an orgasm. He has tried to penetrate deeply but I just don't have an orgasm. I do feel good for a few seconds but I just don't have an orgasm. I don't want to use any form of toy or medications, I want it to be special and natural. Are there an positions that could make me ? Or any thing to do before having sex?
Please help, I need to know because I don't find this normal and it is getting to my head and my boyfriends head.

Are you only trying intercourse? Most woman to not O on intercourse alone. Most woman need clitoral stimulation. 80% of woman do not O from plain old intercourse alone.

Do you do oral? If done properly you will O.

Hand stimulation, if done properly works as well and you will reach O.

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You and your partner really need to learn this stuff. You will be so much happier. Oral is so key for woman.

Too many guys think - wam-bam thank you mam. If he is not willing to try and change - time for a new partner.

Just to add to this: one of my girlfriends had her first orgasm after I gave her a good oral... I won't mention that the following days were the first time I experienced tongue pain :)

hi, i have been with my boyfriend for over a year and we have had sex a few times but the problem is that i just can't have an orgasm. He has tried to penetrate deeply but i just don't have an orgasm. I do feel good for a few seconds but i just dont have an orgasm. I dont want to use any form of toy or medications, i want it to be special and natural. Are there an positions that could make me ? Or any thing to do before having sex??
Please help, i need to know because i dont find this normal and it is getting to my head and my boyfriends head.
From behind or you lying on your back and him standing at the edge of the bed. Don't be afraid to go hard it feels SO good.


A non-sex mode, his fingers in you pushing in and out fast/deep. So he can feel the palm of his hand hitting you as he pushes his fingers hard into you. You giving him a hand job at the same time works amazingly well.