Hi,
For the past 4 months my boyfriend and I of 2 years having been going through a very bad time. Around January I had broken up with him, for his treatment towards me. During that month or so, I did something that I'm not proud of. I slept with someone. Eone he knew of but didn't know. Its something I'm ashamed of completely. After that incident that "guy" and I didn't talk. I then later realized how much I loved my ex boyfriend and I had to forgive him. So I did and we got back together. When we broke up he did stuff with another girl that he had gotten together with for a few days. When we got back together he asked me if I had did stuff with anyone. I said no because I knew he wouldn't take me back. (because when we broke up in January he said to me if you ever want me back don't do anything with anyone cause I can't deal with that. And honestly I wasn't thinking I would want him back when I had sex with this other guy) About a month into us dating again. He "found out" I confessed everything to him. It turned out he really didn't know and tricked me. Its been 2 months and we haven't been together, he's told me that if he ever gets back with me it won't be for a long time. I leave him alone and give him his space but its hard. I want to do something nice for him but he doesn't want to see me. I know he still cares cause he's told me but he just needs his time. I can't wait forever I love him and every night is just a nightmare. Im not the same lying selfish person I was before. I want him to take me back but I don't want to push him cause its pushing him away.

Please be honest and let me know what you think. * I love him and ill do anything to make him decide to be with me soon than later..! :confused:

If he still loves you he mite

HONESTLY, I think that when you guys break up with each other, you sleep with other people and that shows that there is only an attraction to what you guys know you can't really have.? What do you think about that, if I am wrong, tell me, I will try again.

I'm not sure that is a real hard one... you have yourself in a bit of a situation. I think all you can do is not get your hopes up... just in case he chooses not to get back with you... ive never been in this situation myself but I think its impossible to gain that trust back. But then again you both slept with someone? Does he know you know about that?