I have been struggling with my boyfriend who doesn't seem to know what he wants. He can't decide on his own. I feel like I'm his mirror. If I tell him I love you, he says the same thing. If I say, I'm tired of you, he says the same thing. If I break up with him, he completely agrees without any hesitation. He's like a robot following what I decide.

he seems to be very numb and insensitive and is a very quiet person. I started to doubt he is gay because he told me he has a successful gay uncle one time. I didn't care about it, I even thought he was mature because he wouldn't discriminate gay people. But then, we never had sex after about 5 months into the relationship. We only had it like 5x in one year and I thought I wasn't good in bed because he was my first. Then slowly I noticed, we never make out even. He doesn't touch me or cuddle me. I was merely there as a display. We just kiss goodbye in the car and hug. There was just no romance, passion or intimacy.
I doubt he is someone who's struggling with his sexuality and he is denying it himself. I already broke up with him and he seems to be very unaffected. His bestfirend told me, they are also doubting him because I had the same story as his past gfs. My bf's bro is gay, and is obviously gay but my boyfriend keeps telling us he is not and that he gets offended every time we say his brother is gay.
do you think he is gay but he couldn't accept it? I notice he seems to enjoy more with his friends than me.

i have been struggling with my bf who doesn't seem to know what he wants. he can't decide on his own. i feel like im his mirror. if i tell him i love you, he says the same thing. if i say, im tired of you, he says the same thing. if i break up with him, he completely agrees without any hesitation. he's like a robot following what i decide.

he seems to be very numb and insensitive and is a very quiet person. i started to doubt he is gay because he told me he has a successful gay uncle one time. i didn't care about it, i even thought he was mature because he wouldn't discriminate gay people. but then, we never had sex after about 5 months into the relationship. we only had it like 5x in one year and i thought i wasn't good in bed coz he was my first. then slowly i noticed, we never make out even. he doesn't touch me or cuddle me. i was merely there as a display. we just kiss goodbye in the car and hug. there was just no romance, passion or intimacy.
i doubt he is somone who's struggling with his sexuality and he is denying it himself. i already broke up with him and he seems to be very unaffected. his bestfirend told me, they are also doubting him because i had the same story as his past gfs. my bf's bro is gay, and is obviously gay but my boyfriend keeps telling us he is not and that he gets offended everytime we say his brother is gay.
do you think he is gay but he couldn't accept it? i notice he seems to enjoy more with his friends than me.
Gay or not gay...
Who knows.

He is your ex boyfriend now, right ?

Let it go...

It's not important anymore...
You have your life back, focus on that... it was probably a good thing to break up.

He's probably gay. But he's your ex so forget about all this drama and find yourself someone that likes girls and doesn't like drama.

Its pretty cut and dry. Doesn't matter what he is since he's your ex boyfriend.

Yes there are plenty of fish in the sea.

If you are trying to find reasons for his behavior its not necessary. Sometimes 2 people just don't work out together, it doesn't mean he's gay and it doesn't mean you are unattractive. Sometimes people just aren't compatible.

Sounds like him being your ex is the best thing that could happen to you.
He wasn't a boyfriend. He was nothing really.

Im sure you could do better so don't waste time dwelling on your time with him!

Thank,s everyone... I feel better... I guess sometimes, I still feel the pain because no matter what happened, there was an emotional investment... (deep sigh)... well, well... like skell says , the best part of this is that he is now an EX... whooohoooo!

Thanks, matt, chuff, krystal, gypsy, skell and AW :)

Just one more from me: Whatever he is, Only God knows..! But it's time for you to think ahead. I realize that leaving a relationship is frightening and difficult. But loss is not catastrophe, and the end of a relationship is not the end of the world. And even though u may feel sad, u do have the capacity to recover. Because when you face your fears, u pave the way for a life that is more fulfilling and rewarding.

u're welcome anytime.. that's what we all are here for.

Here's a happier way to look at it: Maybe he's simply a sociopath! :-D