My husband and I have been together 3 years next month (June 2007) and we just got married in November 2006. So, we have been married almost 7 months now. We have decided that we don't need to be together because he isn't willing to grow up and change his childish ways and I refuse to settle for less than what I believe I deserve. We have 2 kids together and I was just wondering if anyone knows how we can go about getting our marriage annulled. We live in Richmond, Virginia and I would really like to have help with this. If anyone could give me any kind of help on this I would greatly appreciate it.:confused:

After 3 years together you are just now finding out how childish he is? I have to say just me, but there has to be more to this story than just what you have written. I doubt you can get an anullment, but a divorce is out there for you.

Here is an article I found regarding your question... hope it helps and gives you some more specifics. Divorce Source: How do I obtain an Annulment in Virginia? (http://www.divorcesource.com/VA/ARTICLES/jimison1.html#cooliris)

What you need is a divorce, not sure why you are even asking about an annulment. Plus you will have to get a child custody and child support agreement issued by the court.

And I hate to sound like talaniman on this, but after over 2 years of being together and having kids together what 7 months ago made you think he was something else. And you never marry expecting them to change but accepting them as they are.

I know that he was the way he was when I married him, but he said he was going to work on the things that I couldn't accept. So I married him. Thinking that he loved me the way I loved him and that we were going to be together forever. There are a lot of things that came to light. He told me recently that he does coke, and I don't want that around my kids. He has a video game OBSESSION, not like he likes video games, that's what he does 24/7... and he wasn't like that before. When he isn't on his video games he's out with his friends. He never use to do that. All he wants to do is party now and not take care of his responsibilities. I still love him, he knows I still love him, but he is putting too much stress on me. I also recently that he was online looking for men to meet up with and have sexual encounters. I have no problem with homosexuals, but not when its my husband and we are still married! So yea, there were other things that I just didn't want to put cause it was too long, and I didn't have much time last time... I just miss how he was before we got married. Its ridiculous how a person can change so they can trap you and once you are trapped they turn into werewolves.