I am a 17 year old teenage guy from canada and I was wondering if its sad or pathetic to be a virgin at the age of 17. And when is a good age to lose your virginity if there is one ?


Hope you can help me out. Thanks.

Hi,
I am 63 yrs old, so take what I say with my age in mind!
It is no "sin" to be a virgin.
I was 18 when I got "lucky".
Your first time will be up to you, and the young lady you like well enough to have sex with. BE SURE you wear protection, a condom, when you do.
Don't ever take any young lady's word for it that you are the first... unless you know of course, that she is not lying to you.
There is no "set" age at when a young man has sex, it's different for everyone.
My first was in the front seat of a car, with a bench seat, sitting on a deserted river bank, looking at the moon... very, very, nice!
Best of luck,
fredg

I agree with fredg. There is no "age limit" and certainly no real value to going all the way unless it feels right for both you and the girl. I was 17 and my girl was 18. More boys than you realize don't get there until they are in their 20's. There is always a lot of bragging (and lying).

I found that the most fun was with someone I really loved (and I loved my first--she is now my wife!). It makes it far more worthwhile. Otherwise it is like two dogs, which is how it felt in my "fallen out" period when I tried "the others."

cheers,

Bill

Hey there

Just thought you might want a female opinion on this post.
I was 17 and my boyfriend was 18 when we both lost our virginity. I'm now 19 and I find nothing more annoying than overhearing guys bragging (or yes, more like lying as is often the case) about how many girls they've slept with.

If you don't push for it, it will come to you when it's supposed to.

Oh and I don't believe there is any particular age that one should lose their virginity, but I don't believe in not having sex before marriage either - you've got to try before you buy!!

:)

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Hey,
I lost my virginity when I was about 15... and I regret it... I really think you shouldn't be pressured into it by all of your "buddies", they might say they've done it but they are probably all in the same position as you are... Do it with someone you love or like... but don't let it get to you. (being a girl) I think that you MUST make sure the girl you are planning with WANTS to do it... I didn't and the sex felt good... but very awkward, I've made many mistakes in my life (such as being a call girl for a day) and (having sex with guys who pressured me) just go with the flo and let what happens happen.
:P
Rachel

You ought to be damn proud you're a virgin. It's a smart move. When looking at the future, with all those diseases out there, young and old alike have to think more then twice before they take the next step in a relationship. Wait until your wedding night!

HANK :)

I think it is a good thing to be a virgin! That way u really got to worry about all the yhings u can catch(there is A LOT!! ) :(

If it makes you feel any better, I'm 20 and I'm a virgin.

I am as well

I am 24 male and still virgin ;)

I'm 15 and still a virgin. A lot of my friends always call me different names.. you know.. but lately I've openly admitted to friends I'm a virgin. Some girls think its cute, so it's a bonus. I could lose my virginity if I wanted to, but I don't want to catch an STD.. Plus I want it to be a with a girl that at least means something when I lose it.

Hi I'm 15 an I lost my virginity when I was 13 it was the biggest mistake of my life because me an my girl friend rushed into it to fast so I think you should wait till someone speacial comes along

She say, she still a virgin. But how do you know? Can you tell if you want has sex with her.

Just Wait. There is no rush. You will have no regrets and no diseases to worry about, condom or not.

Bro, I was a virgin until I got married, and I am grateful for that every day. I honestly think my wife and I have a stronger relationship from it, because she too was a virigin until we got married. It's not embarrassing, all my friends were sleeping with everyone, and it didn't benefit them one bit. They are all still going crazy and it effects their lives and school. I'm settled down, and life, school, and marriage are going great for me. Not saying that your life sucks if you don't wait, but my life truly benefited from doing it.

I am 17 as well and a virgin. There are a few reasons I'm a virgin, for one I was a late bloomer. Middle school, Freshman and Sophomore year I looked very childlike, I was a little shorter than everyone else, and of course I wasn't the flirtatious type. I didn't get much action, however when I turned 16 and through 17 (im almost 18 now) I grew a lot, and my characteristics matured, I work out a lot now and I'm in the drama club in a production called the wizard of oz, by new bedford high school, last fall I was on the high school football team. Anyway I have had tons of girls hitting on me, (mostly sophmores and juniors, seniors my age still have an old mindset of me :) ) I don't handle the flirting very well its all new to me, it suprises some of the hot girls that hit on me how much I suck at flirting sometimes they take it as I don't like them when I really do!!
But anyway I have had many girls ask me to be their boyfriend, a sophomore named kayla asked me out, she's 2 years younger than me but omfg she is one of the hottest girls in my school ( my school has 3500 students attending ) I have gotten very close to having sex with her but I think to myself omfg I have gone so long without having sex I'm going to chance getting an std now, Should I have sex with her I'm sure she's a virgin, or should I wait till I get married?

I am a 17 year old teenage guy from canada and I was wondering if its sad or pathetic to be a virgin at the age of 17. And when is a good age to lose your virginity if there is one ?


Hope you can help me out. Thanks.

As long as you are of legal age there is no good age or good time to lose your virginty - the best time is when you feel you are ready to do so. I have great respect for anyone who is still a virgin. I lost myvirginity at 17yrs old. I was more than ready, did it with my current partner at the time. He and I are not togeher anymore but share a very special friendship. I have no regrets.

The only advice I can give you is to wait until you are ready and wait until you find someone you feel really comfortable with.

I have so many friends who lost it due to peer pressure at a young age and under awful circumstances that they have great regrets now.

It is something that happens naturally, so don't worry about it and just enjoy it when the time comes :)

Its only sad and pathetic if you do it because you think you have to.

You don't want it to be a warm body... but someone you really care about and not just horny for.

And always use protection.

I was 21 when I lost my virginity to my wife who was also a virgin and have been happy ever sense

If you wait till the right person comes along then you don't have to worry about diseases

Be patient and when the right one comes along you will know it

I know what itz like, 17 and still a goddamn virgin too. It sucks. All my friends lost theirs.

Well if you are gay you better loose it quick but if your not I don't know cause I am gay

I am a 17 year old teenage guy from canada and I was wondering if its sad or pathetic to be a virgin at the age of 17. And when is a good age to lose your virginity if there is one ?


Hope you can help me out. Thanks.
I'm 17 too, and there are lots of people I know who are still virgins. There is nothing wrong with that. You can be a virgin for as long as you want to =) there is no "perfect age" for losing it. Its whenever you feel you are ready to. I actually find it very attractive when a guy is still a virgin.

I am a 17 year old teenage guy from canada and I was wondering if its sad or pathetic to be a virgin at the age of 17. And when is a good age to lose your virginity if there is one ?


Hope you can help me out. Thanks.
Well, I am a 37-year-old guy and am still a virgin. Heck, you still have your college years ahead of you. Yeah, you might not want to linger like me in the virginity factor but for you about to become a young adult, I just can't see how it would be so bad.

Hay I'm a male, 19 an still a virign so I no how you feel, the extent of my sexually experience is this- kissed a girl when I was six, that's all! I don't think there is a certain age too loose your virginity, all my friends and I mean all of them have lost it so I feel really left out when ever I got out with them because that's all they talk about, it really gets me down, but worst of all everyone of them knows that I'm still a virgin and they keep saying 'come on mate someone special will come around soon'- first heard that afew years ago, I know its hard an really uncomfortable if not embarrassed to still be a virgin in this day an age in modern youth culture but its not pathetic, best advice around I guess is get out there as much as you can and be yourself :D

Well, you don't want peer pressure to dictate anything you do. You will be the one who suffers for it.

Its your life, do it in your own time, at your own conditions. Only a fool lets their "friends" dictate their life. Hell most of them aren't doing half of what they claim to be doing.

hay im a male, 19 an still a virign so i no how u feel, the extent of my sexually experience is this- kissed a girl wen i was six, thats all!, i dont think there is a certain age too loose your virginity, all my friends and i mean all of them have lost it so i feel really left out when ever i got out with them because thats all they talk about, it really gets me down, but worst of all everyone of them knows that im still a virgin and they keep saying 'come on mate someone special will come around soon'- first heard that afew years ago, i know its hard an really uncomfortable if not embarassed to still be a virgin in this day an age in modern youth culture but its not pathetic, best advice around i guess is get out there as much as you can and be yourself :D


Hey Mogoverthemoon, I have just a little more physical contact with the opposite sex and I am 37! I know how alienating it can feel. Yes, the never ending talk among guys about who did whom can really be a downer. I try not to feel bad about being a virgin in this day and age but hope that a woman can display an open mind about some of us, not-so-run of the mill folks breaking society's conventional trends.

Plus, being disease free and having no kids will hopefully work as a plus:)

I am a 17 year old teenage guy from canada and I was wondering if its sad or pathetic to be a virgin at the age of 17. And when is a good age to lose your virginity if there is one ?


Hope you can help me out. Thanks.
Mate get an escort you can make it with a pornstar for 100- 200 pounds its well worth it trust me I did and I was 16 at the time I'm 19 now and I don't regret it at all

mate get an escort you can amke it with a pornstar for 100- 200 pounds its well worth it trust me i did and i was 16 at the time im 19 now and i dont regret it at all

I isn't trying to sound deep, sensitive and all of that but to be honest like all of my mates say 'the first time is special' so telling someone who's a virgin and asking complete strangers questions about his sex life to just got out and get a hooker is a pritty crap answer mate, not the best advise by a long shot, OK you did it and it worked out for you but its still a crap bit of advise to give there me thinks:(

i think being a virgin is a wonderful thing and nothing to be ashamed of. the longer your a virgin the more respect i would have for you and others would. wait until its absolutely right and saving it for your wedding day would be amazing :D

I am a 17 year old teenage guy from canada and I was wondering if its sad or pathetic to be a virgin at the age of 17. And when is a good age to lose your virginity if there is one ?


Hope you can help me out. Thanks.
Yeah gurlz are problems \

I am 18 and I am still a virgin. Virginity is nothing to be ashamed of. I have been told to wait until you are married and have sex. It is safer that way.

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Look is not even pathetic or sad to be virgin at that age is normal a good age is went u are ready if u are still not ready is OK my cousin lost his virginity at the age of 20 so don't worry :p

Hey,
I lost my virginity when i was about 15... and i regret it... i really think you shouldnt be pressured into it by all of your "buddies", they might say they've done it but they are probably all in the same position as you are... Do it with someone you love or like... but dont let it get to you. (being a girl) i think that you MUST make sure the girl you are planning with WANTS to do it... i didnt and the sex felt good... but very awkward, ive made many mistakes in my life (such as being a call girl for a day) and (having sex with guys who pressured me) just go with the flo and let what happens happen.
:P
Rachel

LoL what stupid friends do you have? Being pressured into sex is the most stupid thing I've ever heard of. Whenever I'm with a girl and I ask her if she would like to do it and she's says no, I just accept and treat her to some nice foreplay. I'm 17, and I don't give a crap about sex. If the oppurtunity comes then ill do it, otherwise it's of great importance.

Never be pressured - learn to say no.
Never rush in - sex is overrated. I say this because when you're skilled enough to have about 45 minutes of continuous foreplay which includes oral sex, then intercourse goes out the window.

Ok... I lost mine about a year ago I was 16 I couldn't have gave it a better girl... most people I fine give there's to someone they regeart and never really loved and were pressured into it... im not with the girl any more and I have has now 6 different sex partners... im not proud of it at all... if it was up to me I would have kept it with her... theres nothing wrong with being a virgin... ya your friends may give you about it like I do... but they do it cause they just wish they were still one... so just be smart and give it the girl that you love

Girls have tried to get me to have sex with them before. They were pretty, but I barely knew them, and they weren't my type. I want my first time to be with a girl who I love. By the way, I'm 19 and in college. My peers and girls can put pressure on me, but they can never control me. If you are waiting for the girl you like and your peers make fun of you, they don't know the first thing about girls. They are companions, not prizes.

P.S. I bet more of your friends are virgins than you think:)

I'm 17 and a virgin too, and I am so proud. Have some self respect for your body. Sex is a great thing when it is with the right person. Some guys talk a big game and say they did all that stuff, but it is a bunch of lives. Just think about how special it will be when you do it with someone you love. You and me just have found our soul mates yet, but one day we will and the reward will be that much sweeter! Trust me. A lot of my friend lost there and they REGRET IT! They cry all the time because they gave there most precious thing to a guy thwey thought they loved. Please wait, there is no shame and be a virgin with pride because unlike other you have some self respect for your body, and you lovers!

Hello my name is Samira I am 16. Several month ago I torn my hygen on my own and we are very strict muslem family and soon I am gettnig marry what should I do

If your in this forum asking for opinions from total strangers regarding your inability to get some then yes it is sad... If you are proactively seeking to change your situation but have just been unlucky, then it's not sad it's just a game of averages... you may get 50 no's but you will eventually get a yes...

Samira... just tell them

hello my name is Samira I am 16. several month ago i torn my hygen on my own and we are very strict muslem family and soon i am gettnig marry what should i do

Assalaam alaikum sister Samira,

It is not a big thing to have a torn hymen, especially as it is possible to happen without sexual encounters.
You do not have to tell your parents, nor do you have to tell your husband until you feel that he will accept you and believe you when you say that it was not due to a sexual encounter but due some other reason.

Hope the following helps you in allaying your fears.

Wa alaikum salaam.
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Question:
Praise be to Allaah, I came from a religiously-committed family and I am also religiously-committed, but now I am living in a state of fear because I am soon to get married to a young man who is also respectable. The reason is that I think my hymen may have been broken – without committing any immoral action, Allaah forbid. Should I tell him about that (although it will be difficult for me) or should I leave it until the wedding night and not tell him? I do not know what to do, please advise me. May Allaah reward you with good.

Answer:
Praise be to Allaah.

So long as you are chaste and have not committed any immoral action – praise be to Allaah – then you do not have to tell him, and you should not worry about that. The hymen may be broken due to jumping, insertion of fingers, heavy menses, lengthy spinsterhood and other reasons that the fuqaha' have mentioned.

See: al-Mabsoot (5/8), Kashshaaf al-Qinaa' (5/47) and al-Fataawa al-Kubra (3/88)

The husband should think well of his wife if he finds out that she is not a virgin. As we have mentioned, virginity may be lost due to causes other than immoral actions. If we assume that he asks you, you can answer him in a way that will ward off doubt from his mind. Rest assured that Allaah will support His believing slave and help him. See also question no. 40278.

The Standing Committee for Issuing Fatwas was asked: A Muslim woman had an accident when she was small in which her hymen was broken. She has got married but the marriage has not yet been consummated. In another case, a woman suffered the same accident, and now religiously-committed brothers are coming to propose marriage to her. They are both confused about their situation. Which is better – should the married woman tell her husband before consummation of the marriage or should she keep quiet? And should the one who is not married yet go ahead with it, lest it become known and people think badly of her? This happened when she was small and was not yet accountable. Or is this regarded as deceit and cheating? Should she tell those who come to propose or not, for the sake of getting married?

They replied: there is no shar'i reason why she should not conceal it, then if he asks her after consummation of the marriage, she can tell him the truth. End quote from Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa'imah (19/5)

We ask Allaah to help you and guide you.

And Allaah knows best.

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Question:
I am a Muslim woman, and I fear Allaah in all my deeds. I got married – praise be to Allaah – to a man who is good in all ways; he treats me well and I treat him well, our relationship was excellent in all ways, love, respect, harmony and love for one another's families. But then things started to go wrong. These days my husband and I found out that I was not a virgin, but I am certain that I am innocent because no one ever touched me before him.

Answer:
Praise be to Allaah.

If your husband is wise and religiously committed, and he trusts you a great deal, then what he should do is to believe you when you say that you are innocent of any wrongdoing, especially since the breaking of the hymen may be caused by many things, not necessarily by committing the sin of fornication.

This is if we accept what you have discovered about your not being a virgin. It may be that intercourse has taken place between you but the hymen was not broken, and so there was no bleeding, because of the nature of the hymen. It may be that the hymen is flexible and cannot be broken by intercourse, and requires medical intervention, as is well known to the experts in this field.

The hymen is simply a physical sign which cannot be considered proof of whether the woman is a virgin or not or whether she has committed an immoral act or not. Hence we find that in court, usually the absence of the hymen is not regarded as grounds for making accusations against the woman, because it may be broken for many reasons.

So the fact that the hymen is present is not a positive indication that a woman is a virgin, and its absence is not a positive sign of the opposite.

We advise you to refer to a female doctor to make the matter clear, because there may be many reasons the hymen is broken.

We hope that your husband will understand this matter and will not be hasty in judging you. You should be aware that one of the aims of the Shaytaan is to cause division between husbands and wives, because of the great evil that results from that affecting families and individuals, as we see in the hadeeth of Jaabir who said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: 'Iblees placed his throne on water then he sends out his emissaries, and the closest of them to him in status is the one who causes the most fitnah (tribulation). One of them comes and says, 'I did such and such,' and he says, 'You have not done much.' Then another of them comes and says, 'I did not leave him alone until I caused division between him and his wife,' and he draws him close to him and says, 'How good you are.'” Muslim, 5023.

So he should close this door to the Shaytaan and avoid thinking about this matter, so long as this matter is not definitive and you are certain that nothing bad happened.

We ask Allaah to guide him and to reconcile between you.

And Allaah is the Source of strength.

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WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED! I am a 16 year old girl. And I can say from personal experience that we want the guys not to be sex minded pigs. Having sex while you are a teen does not make you cool. It doesn't. Wait until its right for you. Don't do it because you haven't yet, do it because you really love the person and are in a committed long term relationship with them.

I'm 20 right now and I'm still a virgin. I haven't found anyone I really want to sleep with yet, and in my opinion, it's more important to have someone you want to share the experience with rather than random or frivolous sex.

There's no age limit on being a virgin, and in reality, the world doesn't recognize you as much different a person after you lose that "status". So in other words, don't rush it.

And if you're still a virgin at 40, you can make a documentary to complement the move The Forty Year Old Virgin, so no worries.

I am a 17 year old teenage guy from canada and I was wondering if its sad or pathetic to be a virgin at the age of 17. And when is a good age to lose your virginity if there is one ?


Hope you can help me out. Thanks.

Noticed that your post is a couple of years old so your situation may have changed. However, since I'm dealing with a similar situation I couldn't help but speak up. If you've 'lost it' by now, maybe someone else can benefit from my opinion and that's all it is, an opinion.

I'm a 35 year old guy and I'm still a virgin. Logically, I know it is not "sad" or "pathetic" but it sure as h*** feels that way. I know quite a few people and I can honestly say I don't know of anyone else that can come close to understanding what this is like.

I would like to say I have remained a virgin all these years for religious reasons but that is only a small part of the problem. In school was hardly what you would call hot but I wasn't hideous either. I had friends and I never had trouble talking to girls so I can't say I was shy. I guess I just never really had that strong sex drive that guys, especially teenage guys are supposed to have. I'm not gay, if I were, I would have been having sex with guys. I'm attracted to women I've just never been aggressive enough to actually pursue someone. Making matters worse is that I'm perceived as a "nice guy" so girls then and women now just don't think of me in a sexual way. Even if it had been some totally unsatisfying experience, I would give anything to be able to go back in time and lose my virginity in high school. I'm sure there would be some regrets but compared to the damage my self-esteem has suffered, I think it would be worth it.

It was a little embarrassing in my teens, it was a source of shame in my 20s and now that I'm half way to 40, I can't describe how horrible it is. Very lonely. A few weeks ago I was at a wedding reception. I knew almost all the people there so I'm familiar with everyone's "status". At one point I looked around the room and tried to find one other person that is my age and still a virgin. There weren't any. Nearly 200 people in that room, many of them I consider good friends and I still felt completely alone.

If your religious and moral beliefs allow you to have sex outside of marriage, then do it.
I'm not saying just pick someone up at a bar or hire a prostitute. But if you have an opportunity to lose your virginity in a way that won't leave you damaged emotionally, take advantage of it. We're sexual creatures. I just don't think we can become whole beings without having had that experience. Obviously, the safety and emotional security of a marriage are the best way to experience this.

Hopefully, you're not still struggling with this, if you are, just know that you're not alone.:rolleyes:

Umm.. it depends actually. Don't go for just any girl but wait until you really meet someone special for you or someone you dream for. But it's a good sign, remember.. breaking is easy but building is tough!

I am a 17 year old teenage guy from canada and I was wondering if its sad or pathetic to be a virgin at the age of 17. And when is a good age to lose your virginity if there is one ?


Hope you can help me out. Thanks.


Well to help you out I think like a lot of guys talk a lot about this stuff and don't rush yourself into doing stuff, don't be a man whore. Like seriously.

But I'll probably never get back on this site, so you can message me on AIM. It's okysmile.

:)

Peace.

Well to help you out I think like a lot of guys talk a lot about this stuff and don't rush yourself into doing stuff, don't be a man whore. Like seriously.

But I'll probably never get back on this site, so you can message me on AIM. It's okysmile.



Peace.

Being a virgin means you've chosen to wait. There's nothing rong with that I think.

No, it is not sad or pathetic to be a virgin at 17. It shows that you are in control of your own life and your own decisions. Sex is not a recreational activity , it is something that two people share when they truly care for each other and is ready to be responsible for sex. You and only you will know when the time is right. So be protected and prepared.

I am a 17 year old teenage guy from canada and I was wondering if its sad or pathetic to be a virgin at the age of 17. And when is a good age to lose your virginity if there is one ?


Hope you can help me out. Thanks.
ITS BETTER TO WAIT AND LOSE IT TO THE RIGHT Girl :)

Noo

I am a 17 year old teenage guy from canada and I was wondering if its sad or pathetic to be a virgin at the age of 17. And when is a good age to lose your virginity if there is one ?


Hope you can help me out. Thanks.
It's a sin to have sex before marriage its not that hard not to have sex... whats the rush?. I don't understand.

1) This is your decision. Don't let anyone make you think you're weird to not have had sex already. They can do what they want with their bodies, but as for yours, it is yours alone and you are doing yourself a disservice if you let other people make the decision for you
2) That being said, the best age to lose your virginity would, in my opinion, be when it's legal. Not as soon as it's legal, but some time after it is legal. There's a restriction on these things for a reason. It isn't to prevent kids from having fun or they would ban PS3s and minors with cell phones. It is because before the age of 18 (and sometimes after) the vast majority of kids don't know or can't comprehend the responsibilities that go along with sex. The older you get, the more responsibilities you have such as homework when you're five to filling up your parents car when you're 16 after a night out. Once you reach 18, sex can be your responsibility if you want it. You don't have to drive the car, but if you choose to, you have to make sure the tank is full. You don't have to have sex, but if you do you have to be prepared to protect yourself or deal with the consiquences of STDs, pregnancy, etc.
3) Sweetie it's never sad or pathetic to wait to do something as big as sex until you're ready. What's sad is when people dive into it at 13 and have sex for cokes or cookies and wind up on jerry springer. It doesn't mean no girl wants you. It means no girl that respects herself and you wants to do it until you're both ready. Those girls haven't had sex with you because they're not ready, not because they don't like you.

As always, best of luck

Well, 17 Is not a bad age to loose your virginty, now a days more than 60% of girls are losing it by the time they turn 16. So Your ohkayy.

I agree, you should be proud to be a virgin! I was always surrounded by people who bragged about how many people they slept with and it drove me crazy! That is not impresive!
And of course there isn't really a right age to start having sex. Whenever you feel comfortable. But you will remember it for the rest of your life. I lost my virginity when I was 19 and in love. He was a virgin too and I LOVED that! Waiting for the love of my life was something I've never regretted.

I'm a girl, however I'm 17 and a virgin.
I respect anyone who is because I have seen a lot of my friends go through it and regret it.
I'd prefer a guy who was one too.

I am 23 and lost my virginity at 18 while I was in college. Before that I had a boyfriend for three years and we never had sex. Neither of us were ready. It took this one special man and time to make me ready for that step. I know for guys it isn't always the same as it is for girls. But when you're ready and you find the right person it will happen on its own. In the meantime don't sweat it. Girls can tell when you just want to have sex with them and it freaks them out.

Make sure you stick to your wife you are very lucky

Well i am 27 year old college graduate a female and i am a virgin. I want to wait until m arriage but i want to have sex now but it is goodto wait you are just a kid finish you r education and focus on goals be a married man and always use protection