I need to know how to connect a ceiling fan wall remote, I have the old cloth wires and my remote connecters say not to connect the white neutral wire, the only wires I have are the two that are connected to the wall switch. Because they are covered in cloth they look the same.

Yes, use those two. Connect them to the two switch wires.

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