OK my girlfreind is really confused and likes 2 other guys a lot still but they don't like her any more its been a couple of monthes and she just can't get over them but she sais she really does like me to and she doesn't know what to do cause its so hard for her to let go of them :confused:

OK my friend this is a situation not too dissimilar to one I have been in before.
The problem you have currently is that your girlfriend wants everything her way, sounds like she probably was the kind of gal who hasn't ever 'not' had a boyfriend for any significant period and doesn't know herself very well, its actually quite unfair what's going on there, personally I think you deserve better, I mean technically she's putting YOU in third place...
To two other guys that don't even like her.. that is disrespectful really.. there, if it were me I'd help her make up her mind i.e. I'd break up with her and tell her not to talk to me ever again and find a girl who knows the meaning of respect, because the longer you let a gal disrespect you the more she'll do it.

Anyway good luck dude!