Okay I have a problem...

I like these two totally different guys I mean they have nothing in common.
One I kind of grew up with and the other I met a couple yrs back... But still they are both great. I mean Tyler (the one I grew up with) Is so great and treats me sooo good and he makes me smile nonstopbut he's quiet. Should that bother me?Other than that the only thing is he lives so far.. But then there is Joey he makes me feel so crazy its like Im happy all the time even when Im just thinking about him.. (NOT that Tyler doesn't make me happy)... IDK its just weird. Oh and Joey is an "entrepreneur" so IDK if that's something Id want to get myself into.. You know what I mean... Tyler would rather make his money the fair way but still IDK whiah one I want sometimes its hard for me who to send the day with- that's even is tyler can come all the way to my house I guess I just like it that Joey lives closer and cancome see me... IDK I just need help.:confused:

By saying, "Should that bother me?" it sounds like it might bother you, Don't underestimate entrepreneurs. It is also a 'fair' way to make money. You can tell a lot about a person by looking at how they are preparing for the future. Can I ask how old you are? It will affect how people will answer your question. If you don't want to share, that's OK.
You framed your question in a way that led me to believe that you have already made your decision and you like Joey a little better. It sounds like you just want someone to validate your decision. Well, with my limited information, I would just say to go with your gut. You may be feeling a little guilty because you have known Tyler for a lot longer and Joey has come in and swept you off your feet.
Now, just to warn you. It is human nature to steer towards novelty. Joey is new and Tyler is old. Who knows who else will come into your life that will start looking better than Joey?
In short, go with the guy that:
1. makes you happier
2. makes you feel good about yourself
3. treats you the best
And
4. never cuts you down or makes you feel inferior

Examine these two boys. Which one respects his parents more? Which one is submissive and which is arrogant? Which onebuilds you up and which one doesn't really do so as much? Im not really sure if you're old enough to be thinking about a serious relationship like this, but if you are, if you have that mental maturity that's needed, then that's what you need to look for.
Who is mature, kind, compassionate, doesn't flirt with every girl who comes around... then you have to make a choice.
Especially if you care about them. Don't hold either one in limbo... its cruel and selfish. Pick one, or neither - not both- and tell the other why.

Look I haven't made a choice its just that maybe because Tyler lives so far and joey so close Im drawn to him.. I have to have attention and have someone with me so when I don't get the attention I feel is needed I go looking for it... I don't like being or feeling alone... it scares me so knowing that joey is here and tylers not draws me to him. And when I say entrepreneur I mean drug dealer... So don't get me wrong auttajasi but in this case its bad-every bad... See and another thing now that I work I donmt have time for either one which I think is good because its been giving me time to think... And this summer I'm doing an internship with my church so I won't have to worry about who I want to be with because Ill be too busy so do you think I'm doing the right thing by blowing both of them off.

Aaaahhhhh!. Drug dealer = entrepreneur. Got it. Well then my advice is simple. Go with the guy that DOESN'T sell drugs. I promise you will be grateful in the long run. Living far away from tyler may be good for your relationship. This will give you a chance to practice some self-control and some faithfulness to Tyler and your relationship. It still confuses me that someone, who is doing an internship with their church this summer, is even considering a relationship with a drug dealer just because he lives closer than the guy who you have a great, long friendship with. Stay with Tyler and ditch Joey. Tyler seems like a nice guy. Maybe joey will realize that his "entrepreneurship" is going to hinder his ability to date great girls, and he will straighten out his life. Good luck!

Thaks so much