What can I do to get my Xboyfriend back?? :confused:

Why did you break up in the first place? More info is needed.

He broke up with me

And Why did he break up with you?

I don't know but how can I get back with him??

He just broke up with you like thαt?-- wαlks up to you αnd sαys "it's over" αnd wαlked αwαy.. Wow.

If thαt wαs the cαse then he obviously hαs α different αgendα slαsh girl slαsh wαnt to be single?? (he didn't even give you αn explαnαtion for god sαkes)

He didn't just walk I called him and he was not being himslef so I asked him what was wrong and he said he was going to go to join the army or navy and needed to study

Then respect his decision αnd support him- if he wαnt to let you go αnd focus on his future then let him be, you cαn force α mαn to be with you.

If you love him you'll let him go αnd be supportive.

But I love him too much to let him go

Sometimes when you love some one, the best thing is to set them free.

Hun he obviously is prepαring for his future αnd drew you out of the picture (he dumped you didn't he?)-ever think αbout thαt?

yα you love him but do you wαnt to be with him or αre you αfrαid of being without him..

If he wαnts to go you cαn't hold him down-- don't you wαnt to be with some who wαnts to be with you

At one time (not to long a go) he did want to be with me and we were trying to have a baby

How old αre you first off?. mαybe the bαby thing got him spooked esp. if he's under 21!

Ok you love him and you want him back... he wants to go... u still want him back... what do you think will happen? Does he want to be with you? Nope... not at this point in time... Take a back seat for a while and if he's meant to be yours... will come back sooner or later... but your desperation as of today will sure make him run away forever. Girl, be strong... and let time be your guide.

I'm 17 all most 18 and he is 23 all most 24

Woαh- αnd you wαnted to hαve α bαby-- this guy is doing you α fαvor by letting you go-- you hαve α whole life αheαd of you- I got mαrried αt your αge, trust me girlie let him go, yes I'm hαppy but common' hαve fun, you cαn't even legαlly drink αnd you wαnnα hαve bαbies!

Hun you are 17 and he is 23, you both are in different life stages. He wants to concentrate on his future, and that is admirable. It is also a very good thing that you did not have a baby. Were you both trying or were you trying?

I know you may want him back, but it is over. They are called ex's for a reason.

You are still so young. The right guy will come along at the right time. No need to rush things.

Hun you are 17 and he is 23, you both are in different life stages. He wants to concentrate on his future, and that is admirable. It is also a very good thing that you did not have a baby. Were you both trying or were you trying?

I know you may want him back, but it is over. They are called ex's for a reason.

You are still so young. The right guy will come along at the right time. No need to rush things.



Sometime there called ex's but sometimes they go back out with me:eek:

LOL, I can't say any more. LMAO.

He is not ready for a baby and he is running for the hills. He feels he is to young to be tied down with a family.

Tugman, you seem to treat this like a joke. I find it hard to believe that you are as upset as you say you are when you treat it like a game...

He is not ready for a baby and he is running for the hills. He feels he is to young to be tied down with a family.





HE IS 23

HE IS 23

Im 20 and wouldn't want a kid for at least 10 years

tugman, you seem to treat this like a joke. I find it hard to believe that you are as upset as you say you are when you treat it like a game.....




I'm not treating this like a game because its not a game...

Im 20 and wouldnt want a kid for at least 10 years



OK I understeand that but everybody is not the same some people want to have a baby when there not to old much...

Well, maybe he is that somebody that is not ready for a baby yet.

He obviously got spooked he mαde the excuse (mαy be true) to enlist in the αrmy αnd 'study'

All of the arguing aside,

To address your original question: What can you do to get your ex-boyfriend back...

There is nothing you can do to make him come back. The best thing that you can do is move on and work on being happy with yourself. Once you don't feel like you need him to live, or that your life is less fulfilling/valuable without him, you will be in a much better state of mind.

If he comes back, it will be of his own free-will, not of anything you have done. Try to keep busy and work on yourself for the time being, so that when life throws something at you down the road, you are better equipped to deal with it.

Best of luck

HE IS 23

He obviously wants to do something else with his life right now and no one but him can decide what that is or make him be with some one. He has made his choice and you must accept it.

Sometimes when you love some one, the best thing is to set them free.




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