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Bri N713
Apr 27, 2007, 06:28 PM
I got into a HUGE argument with my all-time best friend, and we haven't spoken in a year. We are thinking of being friends again... Do u think it's possible, we could go back to being best friends? I mean, not right away, but eventually?

Syujin
Apr 27, 2007, 06:41 PM
Dude I know the feeling I have gotten into fights with my friend over the stupidest things imaginable, like what an opinion is or stuff like that, we didn't talk for over 3 weeks until I finally bit the bullet said it was my fault saying I'm sorry and going on with my life. Now we are best friends again and hang out every day just say sorry and don't point blame then everything should go back to normal.

crystalbivens
Apr 27, 2007, 08:32 PM
First you need to ask yourself why you had the fight and why it hurt you so much, sometimes for certain reasons it's better to just let go.
But, then again forgiveness is learning to accept the things you can't take back and moving on and trying to make new memories with the person you want to forgive.

jede52
Apr 27, 2007, 09:58 PM
This has happened to me if u 2 really want to be friends again and try it will probably happen:)

LuvMyMaltipoo
Apr 27, 2007, 10:19 PM
You must talk about the things that happened to make you two argue in the first place. You must solve the problems in the past because if you don't, they are sure to come up again in the future.

JoeCanada76
Apr 27, 2007, 10:30 PM
Of course, it is possible.

The most important thing is communication and working through things. It is important to bring your concerns up openly. If you both learn from the past experiances and figure out why a fight would cause such an argument then you will be able to work through anything that comes up in the future. You just never know, unless you try. Right.

Joe