I'm so scared my period has been really heavy and 2 or 3 days late from what I can remember .but on the 26 th jan I gave a blowjob and was fingered half a hour later I felt my period and put a tampon in me and I don't no if I had sperm on my hand. My period was 9 days late it came on the 5th March and wasn as heavy as normal the colour was not like normal then on the 10th of April period came again and it wasn't heavy,were they my periods.the 24April I was feeling as if I was going to be sick and was very light headed. I also feel full all the time and not hungary a coulpe of weeks I felt the opposite I was hungary all the time. What is the matter couls I be pregnant.:( :( :( :(

There are a lot of reasons for a period to be late and a lot of reasons you can be light headed and have changes in appetite.

Sexual activity that can introduce sperm into the vagina, intercourse or not, can lead to pregnancy. I'm guessing you are not, that you just had a strange cycle and you just feel funny. Even anxiety can cause these symptoms.

But again, stranger things have happened. NOBODY here can tell you with perfect certainty that you are or you are not. You have some waiting to do. Perhaps a test in time.

Again, there are many reasons, including pregnant, that you could have these patterns and feel this way.

What is your opinion

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the FACT is what I stated... though I did say id guess you were not, but then in my opinion random guesses mean nothing.

you are, as mentioned, in for a wait.

that is the FACT.

do you want people just to say what you want to hear? Sorry. I'm not going to do that.

you had sexual activity that COULD have introduced sperm, or not. You have symptoms that could, or not, be tied to pregnancy.

like it or not, that is the reality. If you don't want reality, I don't know what to say.

a doctor might tell you they didn't think so, but if you continued to exhibit symptoms they might perform a blood test. And then if that's negative they still might not know for sure.

again... we can sit here and comfort you by saying we think you aren't, but we don't KNOW you aren't at this time. Its just the truth.

If I was you I would consider seekin help professional that is because although there is many possabilities there is only one way to find out. I personally wldnt wait around to see what happens because it could be a big impact on your life whatever the reason is I hope that you take our advise and act upon it x:)

It's all in your head... if you are pregnant then it's not from the sperm that might ave been on your hand from the blow job dats so impossible, speaking as a person who has done human biology an sexuality in detail... IT'S NOT POSSIBLE. Our mind is a very powerful ting though if we think we might be pregnant an fret on it our bodies might start to play tricks on us, now that is possible!!

...if u are pregnant then it's not from the sperm that might ave been on ur hand from the blow job dats jus so impossible, speaking as a person who has done human biology an sexuality in detail....IT'S NOT POSSIBLE.

Flat out wrong. I've taught more bio and chem, and tutored med students. Your beliefs are incorrect.

As long as the seminal fluid is wet the sperm can live for some time. If exposed to air and dried, then its likely any sperm were no longer viable. But as long as it was still wet there is a chance. I never said it was likely, but possible. To state that its impossible is ignorant. Chances are, shed had noticed wet semen on her hand. But still...

Best practice is to wash and thoroughly dry your hands after oral or hand job to be sure.

I do agree that the chance is lower. I also agree that people think themselves into diagnosis easily. Every med student scares themselves into thinking they have a new disease every few weeks.

But to tell someone that it isn't possible shows that you aren't as knowledgeable as you think.

How long does sperm live when in contact with air

From Mechanisms of Sperm Motility - Charles Lindemann - Sperm Facts (http://www2.oakland.edu/biology/lindemann/spermfacts.htm)

The QUESTION most frequently asked to Dr. Lindemann via e-mail: How long can sperm live on environmental surfaces? ANSWER: They die as they dry out, so it depends on how quickly they dry. They also are killed by fresh water due to osmotic shock. Soap and detergents such as those used for laundering and hand washing also kill them, as these substances strip off the cell membrane of the sperm. Something to consider: They are the haploid half of your life cycle so be careful where you leave them.

im so scared my period has been really heavy and 2 or 3 days late from what i can remember .but on the 26 th jan i gave a blowjob and was fingered half a hour later i felt my period and put a tampon in me and i dont no if i had sperm on my hand. my period was 9 days late it came on the 5th March and wasn as heavy as normal the colour was not like normal then on the 10th of April period came again and it wasnt heavy,were they my periods.the 24April i was feeling as if i was going to be sick and was very light headed. i also feel full all the time and not hungary a coulpe of weeks i felt the opposite i was hungary all the time. what is the matter couls i be preg.:( :( :( :(
HOW ABOUT THIS ANSWER... GO TO THE HOSPITAL AND TAKE A BLOOD PREGNANCY TEST!!!!!! there you go, my advice, that will be $1,000,000.00 please LoL.

Wel what are the chances

Ummm... the more viable sperm you transfer in, the more likely, though its still not as likely as through intercourse.

But "what are the chances"?? We've told you its less likely you are, but still possible you are.

Were you ovulating? How many viable sperm were transferred? How can ANYONE know this? you were there and you dont even know.

So... LIKE IT OR NOT... you'll probably have to wait a while. See if your period comes, or take a test. Even if the test is negative you might need to take another one. It takes time for pregnant hormones to build so sometimes a negative test is just failure to detect pregnant, not the absence of.

That its sooooo hard for you to understand this means you don't understand your own body. Time to get educated.

And read what has been said. Not likely doesn't mean can't happen. NOBODY can tell you yes or no right now with absolute certainty.

You are sexually active. Own up. Learn. And stop ignoring what you are being told.

A while back I was always feeling hungary now in always fool and feel ful when eated small amounts, my periods haven been there normal flow for the last past two months I have not had sex but did have fore play,I'm scared and worried :confused: :confused: :(

It's perfectly normal... don't worry about it.

What aprt is normal

Its strange because I have had 2strange periods and I haven had this before then I have all this after giving a blow job

Its strange because I have had 2strange periods and I haven had this before then I have all this after giving a blow job. I haven't had sex

Why are you scared and worried? If your concerned about anything that you mentioned it is best to see your doctor.

As far as I can see everything is normal. Maybe the feeling full feeling is actually gas, reflux. It could be anything. Like I said only way to know for sure is to see your doctor.

Best of luck.

Joe

how long does sperm live when in contact with air

Not long.


its jus strange because i have had 2strange periods and i haven had this before then i have all this after giving a blow job. i havent had sex

Periods change as you grow and mature. It is normal.

Your worried over nothing but as I said in another thread that you started, if your truly concerned and nothing we say releases any of that worryness you have, then it is time to get educated and visit your doctor.

Joe

Its strange because I have had 2strange periods and I haven had this before then I have all this after giving a blow job. I haven't had sex

How old are you? Why are you worried? Basically, you haven't said enough for anyone to make a very good suggestion. If your still in school, it is very normal to have irregular periods. When you said you had foreplay... the only reason you would need to worry is if he ejaculated on (or very close to= such as upper thigh) your vagina. That is the only way you could possibly get pregnant from foreplay. Try not to worry. Stress can also cause changes in both period and eating habits.

Periods change as you grow and mature. It is normal.

Your worried over nothing but as I said in another thread that you started, if your truly concerned and nothing we say releases any of that worryness you have, then it is time to get educated and visit your doctor.

Joe

Please re read what I wrote and repeat it to yourself and then maybe you will eventually get it. Periods change. When you grow they change. Sometimes you might not even get one. Like others have said in other posts. Stress can be a factor in how it effects your period.

Best of luck.

Joe

I'm so scared my period has been really heavy and 2 or 3 days late from what I can remember .but on the 26 th jan I gave a blowjob and was fingered half a hour later I felt my period and put a tampon in me and I don't no if I had sperm on my hand. My period was 9 days late it came on the 5th March and wasn as heavy as normal the colour was not like normal then on the 10th of April period came again and it wasn't heavy,were they my periods.the 24April I was feeling as if I was going to be sick and was very light headed. I also feel full all the time and not hungary a coulpe of weeks I felt the opposite I was hungary all the time. What is the matter couls I be pregnant.

That's what I'm worried about

Based on the sexual contact you stated... being pregnant is next to impossible. Sperm needs fluid to move. I'm guessing that worrying is the real reason your irregular and having a varying appetite. Your not pregnant. Going through this gives you an idea of why you want to have protected sex... not just diseases but possible pregnancy. Please be careful. This time you avoided pregnancy.

All true joe-

Ill bet I don't know a single woman who hasn't, at some time, had an irregular period and not been pregnant.

Stress is probably the reason for your increase and decrease of appetite and as the same for the irregular periods. You need to relax and stop thinking about all this. What you are going through is normal.

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I'm so scared my period has been really heavy and 2 or 3 days late from what I can remember .but on the 26 th jan I gave a blowjob and was fingered half a hour later I felt my period and put a tampon in me and I don't no if I had sperm on my hand. My period was 9 days late it came on the 5th March and wasn as heavy as normal the colour was not like normal then on the 10th of April period came again and it wasn't heavy,were they my periods.the 24April I was feeling as if I was going to be sick and was very light headed. I also feel full all the time and not hungary a coulpe of weeks I felt the opposite I was hungary all the time. What is the matter couls I be pregnant.
So I'm not pregnant

Wel are you thinking thst I am pregnant

wel are u thinkin thst i am preg

How many times do you have to be told in two different posts with over 20 answers by different people.

NO, now if you worried or concerned go to your doctor. Your obviously not mature enough or have enough sense of anything so it is best you do not do anything else with anybody until your 30 years old.

Then you will have nothing to worry about.

Joe

How many times do you have to be told in two different posts with over 20 answers by different people.

NO, now if you worried or concerned go to your doctor. Your obviously not mature enough or have enough sense of anything so it is best you do not do anything else with anybody until your 30 years old.

Then you will have nothing to worry about.

Joe

wel are u thinkin thst i am preg

Seems that you are so scared , m afraid that if your fear about this MITE querry make you really PREGNANT.:)

Wel now my period is due on Tuesday and I always have had sore breasts before my period and there arnt even sore not that's strange

It is not strange. I go through the same thing some times I have sore breast and other times I don't, it all depends on how much caffeine I have consumed in few weeks before my period. Watch your caffeine intake and you will see the difference.

What do u mean

Wel I have always had sore breasts

I have always had sore breast too and I had consulted a doctor about it. He recommended that I should cut down on my caffeine intake and ever since I watch my caffeine intake. Keep in mind not only coffee and tea has caffeine but also sodas contain a lot of caffeine.
I have cut down on the caffeine and the soreness was reduced.

Still no period no only a little pain in my breast

No period

its been 8 dat=ys n no period my boobs usually get really sore but there only sore when I run and I have been eating more and always tiard

What would make my period change and the previous ones n now its 10 days n noo period I'm worried sick

Go to your doctor. Periods change. If your concerned go to your doctor and stop being so thick in the head, because that is exactly how you have been in this thread.

Please just go to the doctor. You are obviously young, so tell your mother you think you are having allergies or a head cold or sore throat or something. Just get yourself there. Tell the doctor what has happened.

I am 99% sure you aren't pregnant. Why? Because everything you are describing sounds like you psychologically convinced yourself you're pregnant and your body is faking symptoms. You've had two periods. It is really unlikely you are pregnant. It is possible that you can get your period when you are pregnant but it is certainly not the norm.

Stress (like over thinking you are pregnant) can disrupt your cycles and make them irregular. Often, late periods are heavier. It is normal for your periods to change as you get older, you are not done maturing or developing... which is exactly why you're too young to be having sex or worrying about pregnancy in the first place. You need to let your body finish changing and growing first!

It can happen, but you probably didn't get pregnant from what you did. I really, really doubt you are.

Everyone who told you to go to the doctor are RIGHT. They can put your mind at ease AND give you information to educate you about the subject.

If you are planning on being sexually active, please consider talking to your doctor about going on the patch or the pill so this doesn't happen again. Learn from how you are feeling right now so you don't make a mistake in the future.

Good luck!

Ill ask it for her...

"but... am i pregnant?"

*sigh*

What u mean

I'm reaally freaking out now

If you can not figure this out. Let me say it nicely. Your thick, thick is another word for many things. I will give you a definition.

Lacking mental agility; stupid.

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Look up all the definitions of Thick. Then think about what they mean and how it describes you. Then maybe you will learn and actually take the advice people have giving you.

Joe

Okay, Hoop, this is getting utterly ridiculous. Do you know what that means?

I stayed away from this thread until now because you have been given such wonderful answers. Now, I am stepping in...

See the title under my name? Health Expert...

The chances of you being pregnant are slim to none. We cannot diagnose pregnancy over the internet. Do you understand that?

Stress and worry will cause a young woman to have a late period or even miss a period. Also something as simple as your age can cause this to happen too. I am guessing you are in the 12 - 15 year old range, right?

Okay, now please stop asking the same questions over and over. We can't do any more for you here than we have already done.

Get your Mom to take you to the doctor for a pregnancy test. If you are not pregnant you need to get on birth control.

Thank you but in turning 17

Being 17 has nothing to do with the issue.

You are sexually active. You are worried. So you either ARE willing to take responsibility and get checked or you are not willing to listen to any advice.

If your doctor isn't an option, go to a free women's clinic.

If all you want is supposition and guesses, ask a girlfriend. Come here interested in facts.

And maybe you'll finally listen to j_9 and be done with the am-i-or-arent-i stuff.

It is fine to be unsure and worried. But either you are willing to get the real answers or not. So far, you have not been.

Time for me to unsubscribe from this thread and never come back, I hope to heaven

Not to mention that if this happened in January, you would definitely KNOW by now, without a doubt, that you were pregnant... I think you are either trying to get attention, or trying to get a rise out of the nice people here. I honestly doubt there is anyone is as thick as the person you are portraying.

It is perfectly OK. And please stop telling us about your blow job giving, we heard to the first time, no need to repeat it.