jess04
Apr 23, 2007, 10:47 PM
I've got and issue with my son's father...
First let me get you up to speed, so you'll understand what's going on here:
He and I dated a short time and broke up... a month or 2 later I found out I was pregnant... he wanted to get back together and get married when I told him no, but that we could be friends and see where things lead, because we jumped into things a little quickly... well that pissed him off and he quit talking to me all together... our son was born in April 06... he still wasn't talking to me... he didn't start talking to me again until early nov... we started talking again and are now dating (going on 4 1/2 months now)
Now for my issue...
We've been dating and everything and Gage and I spend every weekend at his house (which is great... when we're there), but during the week it's like we don't exsist to him in the context that he won't tell ANYONE (not friends, coworkers, family or anyone) about us... he says he doesn't want his rep ruined for being an unwed father... but what hurts me is I have no chioce in weather or not people know I'm an unwed mother... why should he get that choice?
I don't know what to do... it hurts me so much... I feel like some dirtly little secret or something.
Why won't he tell anyone about our son and I?
First let me get you up to speed, so you'll understand what's going on here:
He and I dated a short time and broke up... a month or 2 later I found out I was pregnant... he wanted to get back together and get married when I told him no, but that we could be friends and see where things lead, because we jumped into things a little quickly... well that pissed him off and he quit talking to me all together... our son was born in April 06... he still wasn't talking to me... he didn't start talking to me again until early nov... we started talking again and are now dating (going on 4 1/2 months now)
Now for my issue...
We've been dating and everything and Gage and I spend every weekend at his house (which is great... when we're there), but during the week it's like we don't exsist to him in the context that he won't tell ANYONE (not friends, coworkers, family or anyone) about us... he says he doesn't want his rep ruined for being an unwed father... but what hurts me is I have no chioce in weather or not people know I'm an unwed mother... why should he get that choice?
I don't know what to do... it hurts me so much... I feel like some dirtly little secret or something.
Why won't he tell anyone about our son and I?