Just curious because sometimes men act jealous but then you don't understand their actions.They want to do things but never make an effort.

I really think it's you who really pick men that are either liars, perverts, or nuts in some ways, making all your relationships with men very unhealthy and messy. At least the ones you have written about here.

I understand but I asked about men hiding feelings.

What makes you think he is hiding feelings? That makes little sense.

How is it little sense