View Full Version : My Boyfriend doesn't understand
Twyzzler_82
Apr 19, 2007, 05:18 PM
My boyfriend does not understand what I am going through. I am 6 months preganant and getting bigger. I can not fit any of my clothes and all I want to do is stay at home. By the way this is my third child. He just says that our relationship is not the same and he is beginning to stray away from me. He doesn't call me anymore and when I call him he asks like he does not want to be bothered. I know that he is acting like this because he says that I am mean toward him. What can I do to get him to understand it is not him personally I am just pregnant and my hormones are not normal?
ilovechris
Apr 19, 2007, 05:35 PM
Hey sorry to hear that. I'm 8 months pregnant and at the start my man didn't understand.I just got my midwife to talk to him and tell him what I am going through and I'm really young I'm only 13 years old. So just get as many people to talk to him and hope that his feeling change and that he starts to understand...
automansgirl
Apr 20, 2007, 10:18 AM
Sounds like a difficult situation. Has your boyfriend read any books on pregnancy? They have lots that are just for men. Some men just don't understand what it is you are going through, and can tend to feel left out. This pregnancy involves him, but he doesn't feel involved. It's you carrying the baby after all. Try to talk to him. Open communication is key. Let him know what is going on with you and how you feel. Find out what's going on with him. He may have some real fears about pregnancy and becoming a father. This is normal and it is okay. Hopefully things will turn around for you