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collie_man
Apr 17, 2007, 11:36 AM
I don't like to admitt but I'm a little bit on the smaller side, is there anything out there that can help me?

shorterok
Apr 17, 2007, 11:55 AM
I think they have pills out that your can take if your not interested in actual surgery

phillysteakandcheese
Apr 17, 2007, 12:31 PM
Being "a little bit on the smaller side" is mostly a problem that exists only in your mind.

The biology of our reproductive organs is such that "size does not matter"... that is, unless you are extremely small or extremely large. If you think you are "extremely small", see a doctor for medical options.

Just like most women don't look like porn stars, most men don't have the huge organs that are portrayed in such material.

The best thing you can for yourself is to be accepting of yourself and who you are. Be confident in your ability, and less worried about "how it looks".

Krs
Apr 18, 2007, 04:38 AM
As phillysteakandcheese said "size does not matter" however the most important is the movement ;)

EnglishRose
Apr 18, 2007, 06:20 AM
How do you even know that you are small honey? I had an ex who thought he was small because someone told him 9" was average! Bless him. I REALLY don't think that pills or surgery are the answer either way. Chances are you are just a little paranoid and that you are a perfectly normal guy. But, you have to remember that everyone has an area they are less confident about. If your worried that a girl will notice in bed then simply over compensate with foreplay. No girl who is mid orgasm will notice a few centimeters here or there!

alkalineangel
Apr 18, 2007, 06:27 AM
I agree with the others, you are probably just freaking yourself out... besides, what you lack in size, you could always make up for with foreplay!

ScottGem
Apr 18, 2007, 06:33 AM
Yes, what can help you is learning how to please your partner. Penetration is only one part of being sexually intimate. And frankly, its an overrated part. Talk to your partner, find out what pleases her and do it. You will then forget about your imagined inadequacies over size.

shorterok
Apr 18, 2007, 07:14 AM
i dont like to admitt but im a little bit on the smaller side, is there anything out there that can help me?
If all else fails oral sex should do the trick.