Say your ex want you back. If you had to choose between the (ex/boyfriend or ex husband)-being filthy rich, controlling and a womanizer and the only way you would be able to have all of that money is to accept him back and everything he is doing and never complain or the (current boyfriend or husband)- who has nothing to offer but love and happiness all the time who would you choose?

Is this a hypothetical question or something you're actually going through?

Me, I'd choose love over money any day. Money can't buy love, or happiness. When you're on your death bed will you remember all the things you bought and all the money you had, or will you remember all the good times you had with people you love?

Wonderful answer! But its hypothetical. No way would I choose money and being disrespected or mistreated.

If it hypothetical then there is no set answer.

Marry the rich guy and divorce him and get alimony. That's what gold diggers do, and they seem to be happy... and pretty well off too. ;D

Anybody that knows about love and happiness understands everyday AIN"T that happy. MY hypothetical question to YOU is, why are you still even talking to a rich ex, if you are with his po' a$$? Maybe you aren't THAT happy to begin with? :(

That's a personal problem, and has nothing to do with us guys, or our money....or lack of it. :O

Back to you. :)

Not enough information about either guy - or you.
As is the case with so many hypotheticals.
Besides, most really rich guys don't try to get exes back.
And most poor guys don't provide all that much happiness, especially if you want children.

And ex is an ex for a reason... they should stay an ex.

This was hypothetical I have been married for 20 years.

By the way, nice answer. Also I've been happily married for 20 years.

By the way, its not a personal problem, because I have been happily married for 20 years. Still overjoyed.

Ok, enough said.

When you ask a question like this expect to get all sorts of answers. Most people ask hypothetical questions because they're going through something similar or exactly the same as the question they're asking, otherwise, unless you're writing a paper for school there's not much point in asking a hypothetical question, especially when you know what the majority of people are going to say.

Thank you, but I'm not going through anything. I just joined and was asked to ask a question, and this is the one I come up with. I'm a very happy and satisfied person.

Glad to hear it. We're not used to people just asking random hypothetical questions, so please forgive us for assuming it was a real situation. That's normally how it is here. :)