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speyes
Apr 17, 2007, 06:21 AM
OK I have been seeing my boyfriend for 4 months now, it was love at first sight for both of us, he's taken me away spends most days with me and says he loves me. On Saturday he went to look for an engagement ring for me. Then Sunday he leaves early saying he needs time on his own to think. That we're moving to fast!
What the hell? I didn't make him do anything he was the one alwa coming to see me saying he missed me talking about moving in with me. Hw can he change in a day? What is he thinking? Meanwhile I'm sat home going insane worrying.
Someone please help!

Krs
Apr 17, 2007, 06:24 AM
Have u asked him this?

speyes
Apr 17, 2007, 06:27 AM
Yes, he just says he doesn't know and he needs time.

Krs
Apr 17, 2007, 06:29 AM
Well give him time then, if you keep pestering him to get an answer the more you won't receive one.
Be Patient and let him know that you understand he needs time, however for the benefit of both of you, you need to know... In the near future!

Emland
Apr 17, 2007, 06:31 AM
4 months is way too early to be picking out an engagement ring. Maybe he realized that and wants to make sure your relationship is solid before moving ahead too quickly.

CandyLight
Apr 17, 2007, 06:33 AM
Give him the time he need's

dreamgurl068
Apr 17, 2007, 09:35 AM
4 months is to early it will never work out if you jump into this relationship give it time to grow maybe he is scarred because its only been 4 months

Jiser
Apr 17, 2007, 03:08 PM
4 Months way to soon to be looking at engagament! Give him the space he asked for and concentrate on yourself for the time being and keep yourself busy :)