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I am not having an affair, I love my wife, but I would say from past experience, that yes, a man can definitely love more than one woman at the same time. Sucks maybe, but true.

That is what I was afraid of

Why what is your personal situation. Is your husband or boyfriend cheating on you. If so, it is time to drop the sack of dirt and move on.

Joe

Normally no, normally they are looking to build up some of their own ego, or just bored with the same old sex. There is that 1 in 100 that do leave their wife ( or more often their wife kicks them out when they find out) but most will dump the girlfriend on the side if it risks their marriage.

Is there more to this question? :cool:

I imagine that they do love their mistress on some level, but its not a healthy love if you really look at it. If it was would it cause all that misery and pain??

Do married love their mistresses? They call it love and it can be a type of love - but is it the marrying kind of love? Must not be, or the woman would not be a mistress any more, but a new wife.

I imagine that they do love their mistress on some level, but its not a healthy love if you really look at it. If it was would it cause all that misery and pain????

Couldn't spread the love as I agree with you a lot about not a healthy love, its also a very selfish kind of love if you tell me.

I am not having an affair, I love my wife, but I would say from past experience, that yes, a man can definitely love more than one woman at the same time. Sucks maybe, but true.

Doesn't make sense to me. If the man loves 2 women, a wife and a mistress, then he is hurting the wife intentionly, and therefore he cannot really love her... It goes against the definition of love that I choose to use. You can only love 1 woman if you truly love them (unless there is some sort of mutual arrangement where neither woman is hurt).

To answer the original question... "NO"

I think it is possible, depends on the cases. The mistresses can be their soulmates, more than a sex partner. Then I guess the man has to pick whoever he feels the most for.

Yes Of course they do, as long as the men get what they want they will love their mistresses with all their hearts. Cut out the sex and soulmate or not adios on to someother.

talaniman, I tried to rate your answer but couldn't. What does this mean?
"You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to talaniman again" .

talaniman, I tried to rate your answer but couldn't. What does this mean?
"You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to talaniman again" .
This means that you are only a Junior Member and he is a Relationship Expert and has a lot more greenies and experience. Until your level on here builds up then you cannot give greenies or reddies to higher-up members.

talaniman, I tried to rate your answer but couldn't. What does this mean?
"You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to talaniman again" .

It means you rated him recently and cannot rate him until you rate some other people. :)

Thank you :-)

Probably not. But one thing for sure is that they don't love their wife very much.

He loves neither the wife or the mistress as love requires respect. It is also a sign that he does not love or respect himself (low self respect like low self esteem).

I pity all involved in an affair but more so the man who does not know himself well enough to respect himself, and one that would risk losing the most important thing God gives us, our family.

talaniman, I tried to rate your answer but couldn't. What does this mean?
"You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to talaniman again" .

I had the same problem before, I found it happens if you try to agree with the same user twice in a row. Once you agree or disagree with another user than you can rate talaniman again.

I is quite easy for a man to truly love more than one women. It is in their nature. Just as it was in Jesus's nature to love many women.

For all the mistresses... suck it up! If he was able to cheat on his wife, HE WILL DEFINITELY CHEATS ON YOU!!

Yes married men having affairs love their mistresses. I have been having an affair for 4 and a half years. And lets get over the infantile notion that a mistress wants to be a wife. That's mularky. I was married twice, my last husband passed away, so I am now a widow in control of my own finances and household. My married boyfriend visits me everyday, my kids know him because he's always here. He helps me around the house, we have birthdays and special dinners, we go to the library together, etc. we even go to home depot together. His wife is not interested in having sex, and she does not like to have conversations about politics art, music, etc. I am an artist and graphic designer, So something interesting is always going on here. We spend almost every night together. He cannot afford a divorce and I would never ask him to get one, why should he? I have no interest in another marriage. But yes I love him madly and he loves me. I am 7 years older than him, and we have sex almost everyday. This relationship has been a very happy one. I am also very discreet and would never do anything to embarrass his wife. I am perfectly happy being his cherished mistress.

I'm 34 yrs old, was in a long term relationship which ended. Since the past 1.5 have dated several married men in which one turned to cheat on me. The current person I'm seeing for the past year just told me he is attracted to me and loves me.

It's not just about sex. It's about passion and able to click with the person. In fact I had never clicked so much with this person I'm seeing now than any other man in my life. We enjoy each others company and are very much alike. :)

"No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to one and despise the other. Matthew 6:24

THE TWO MASTERS CAN ALSO BE UNDERSTOOD AS TWO WIVES (WOMEN) OR HUSBANDS (MEN) --YOU CHOSE. EITHER WAY IT IS CONFUSION THAT NEED NOT BE. MAKE UP YOUR MIND PEOPLE!

that is what I was afraid of

They might think they are in love, but in fact I think they live a fantasy!