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Rockabilly1955mama
Apr 16, 2007, 10:25 AM
My boyfriend of 2 months has just recently started talking about his past girlfriends.
About what they would do if they were in certain cituations and all.

Does he want them back? Or does he just miss them?

talaniman
Apr 16, 2007, 06:21 PM
Or is he watching for your reaction. Tell him straight up to knock it off and your offended, or ask him why the hell he brings those bimbos up.

dreamgurl068
Apr 17, 2007, 09:37 AM
My boyfriend of 2 months has just recently started talking about his past girlfriends.
About what they would do if they were in certian cituations and all.

Does he want them back? Or does he just miss them?
What do you mean talking about them is he comparing you to them or no because if he is then you don't need to be with him and he must want to be with his ex if he talks about her all the time you just need to leave all that along and find someone who will like you for who you are and not someone else that they are thinking of

Rockabilly1955mama
Apr 17, 2007, 11:15 AM
Well when we are doing certain things such as driving he'll look at me and say "Melissa (his ex) didn't do that or she did this" type of thing... in the weirdest circumstances too.

For one, I don't give a rats a** in her driving abilities!

I think he just misses her partly because she was a tramp. Who knows. Next time he pulls this again, should I just tell him that I'm NOT her, I'm ME and you have to love it or leave it... or is that taking it too far?

talaniman
Apr 17, 2007, 12:28 PM
He has to come to a point where he realizes that this bothers you, you must express yourself to him, or do you think he is just remembering out loud? This will take understanding as you will be prone to remembering those good old days. Don't take it personally.

Rockabilly1955mama
Apr 18, 2007, 10:42 AM
Thank you all, very much.