So I met a girl in January time her name is Chloe and we talked for months, I started to develop feelings for her. At the time she had a girlfriend called Niamh, the times they broke up Niamh would treat her like utter crap and make her feel worthless. On Skype a week or two earlier she said she was in love with one person and had a crush on another, than she promised she'd tell me on my birthday. My birthday than came around, she admitted that her crush was me and she was in love with Niamh and I told her I had a crush on her too. We agreed it wouldn't be awkward and not do anything since she was dating Niamh, than they left a day later and about two weeks later her and Niamh broke up.

Her and Niamh had an on and off relationship, I had a huge argument with Niamh and we both don't like each other to today. Chloe slept at mine on the second week I was off for bank holiday and slept from the 6th to the 8th of April, we almost kissed several times and we cuddled and did romantic stuff. She asked me not to tell Niamh cause otherwise she'd accuse her of taking sides, I agreed. Then on Thursday the 14th me and Chloe had a huge argument, her and Niamh had started dating again but I didn't know because Chloe would barely talk to me because she was determined to become Niamh's friend after an argument.

Niamh's friend Anna asked me why she was blocked from seeing my story, me thinking it was my internet friend Anna told her. Anna than told Niamh, who flipped out on Chloe and broke up with her, making Chloe angry with me. Than a couple of days ago me and Chloe started talking now and than, on the most recent Saturday Alisha who I had known since year 1st/2nd grade asked me out. Me thinking I was okay said yes, now today me and Chloe started talking like we used to. It made me realise that I am still in love with her, but I am in a relationship I don't want to be in. I checked the app 'Vent' Chloe had posted that she was upset it said 'I am such an idiot... I let the one person I truly care about most and who made me feel like someone cared about me out of my grasp, now she's already in a relationship... ' talking about me.

I'm in love with Chloe who lives an hour away, but I am in a 4 day relationship with Alisha who has a crush on me but I don't see her like that really. I really don't know what to do, I don't want it to be awkward with Alisha but I don't love her like that. I love Chloe.

You need to leave them both alone. You are not being fair to your girlfriend. The other girl is jerking you around.

Harshness Warning

You don't have relationship problems. You are just caught in the world of flaky drama queens who follow whatever emotions are the strongest at the time, and call it love. It's NOT! It's not even meaningful romance. What you are doing is just something to do until you figure yourself out and get real with life.

Break the cycle of these fake interactions, and get honest with yourself, and leave the drama clique chicks alone. Or just sit and wait for your time to be the happy drama queen again. When your "love" comes back, and you get rid of the crush, who is only something to do to keep you occupied until then.

That's the way it goes in fake drama romance land.