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Shania p
Dec 29, 2015, 07:43 PM
I was out with my guy friend the other day and a guy that's in my class that has admitted to liking me has my number. While I was walking with my guy friend the guy that likes me [his name is Zack]
Walks up to me and says " hey can you reply to my last message I want to talk to you" so he then waves ands walks away from me. My guy friend says "text him" and I start to laugh (because I sensed he was trying to be funny" then he says "what? Go ahead I'm not jealous" and I said "I never said you were jealous " and he said "okay well I just don't want you "dreaming or thinking I am or did get jealous"
He's my friend and I'd like to keep it that way I don't see him romantically nor do I think he sees me in that way we have a typical friendship
I think he might assume I see him more than a friend but I actually do not see either one of these guys more than what they are.I would like them both to stay at a friend level as I'm not eready for a relationship.

smoothy
Dec 29, 2015, 07:55 PM
How old are all of you?

Shania p
Dec 29, 2015, 08:01 PM
I am 19 he is 21

Fr_Chuck
Dec 29, 2015, 08:40 PM
So talk to him, ask him, you could "guess" better than us, but again, friends talk, chat and hang out. Nothing in your story suggests any romantic interest,

talaniman
Dec 29, 2015, 08:41 PM
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/he-encouraging-me-text-guy-like-me-819087.html

I don't think he sees you that way, or cares if you have as many guy friends as you want. I said as much in your other thread so why do you keep asking if he wants more than just friends over and over again?

We call that jumping to conclusions and that's easy when you don't honestly communicate with your friend about your worries and concerns. I think you need to get use to your guy friends trying to get more than you are willing to give them sometimes, it's the nature of young guys to explore the possibilities, even if it's going nowhere.

Eventually they have girlfriends or EVENTUALLY you get a romantic interest. Enjoy the friendships, and attention while it lasts and just be cool.

catonsville
Dec 30, 2015, 08:56 AM
It is very simple, you are asking us "is your friend interested in you"? Answer, we do not know. You have said, you just consider the guys you communicate with as just friends. At this point in time, it appears you know what the answer is. Just friends for now, it doesn't matter what they think or want.

ma0641
Dec 30, 2015, 10:22 AM
Didn't you ask the same question before?