WeAreLost
Apr 12, 2007, 09:53 AM
Originally, after selling my home I was looking for a condo, we both moved in with my Mom and after many times of my Mom thinking that the disrespectfulness would stop if I were to leave . Out I go ten blocks away and my daughter sees me maybe once a week. Im not there to see that saying you have no homework only goes so far then after a day you don't believe it. Upon discussing it with her now after 2 years of this going on, she tell me fu that's the reason we don't get along because now she failing like 3 classes and she tells my Mom ,because she asks her, according to my Mom doesn't want to be around me. I tell her she doesn't need to be given the choice wheither to see me or not , its my Mom who has minipulated this whole thing to get rid of me. You see Im convinced that she really hates me enough to take advantage of myself and daughter to get what she always wanted. She plays the martar she friend tell her she's crazy for taking care of these kids and doing so much for them, I wonder if they are saying to her yes you are crazy like sick in the head number one to put your son in the position not to be a father but just whatever she wants to put me down to. She brings up and looks for negative things then changes them some to make me look real bad, and not behind my back right in front of me the few times Ive been around. That I know Is the destructive behavior that she is associated with bringing this up in front of my daughter hurts her as well as me and in the end now again after 2 years she doesn't want to be around my mom and I together. I told my Mom this same thing and she called me back after thinking and said its your problem I said the three of us and ashrink need to sit down and talk. Im sure she my Mom must know what that woiuld mean she would have to go back and treat me like a human being. . My Mom would threaten her to have to go live with me if she continues to make a mess, she can make a mess like you wouldn't believe. Also she is so direspectful to her as well as me My mom says I can't take it you better talk to her or your going to get her back. I say give her back now and now she stopped saying that. Id be much better off with her here as well as she would be. The difference is my Mom has millions but acts like she's broke when it convient to her , like when she tells me how much it cost to have her there. One very important part of this family my mom has from the beginning of my daughter living there has left me out of their business they go away for vacations weekends, 4 or 5 nights out for dinner and the rest of their time they are at the mall spending thousands shopping its become the only thing I see the two of them can do. What am I to do?( to be cont.)