My boyfriend has told me that he wishes to wear tights and shorts sometimes when we go out, he also says he would like to wear my perfume, as he prefers th scent to other male alternatives, I do not know how to respond to this, please give me the right advice for him, as far as the tights are concerned, he wants to wear black and or natural, I do not wish to lose or hurt him, but give the right advice thank you Lisa

How do you feel about being in public with him? Can you cope with the stares and attention he may draw? If it's all good then let him. If it weirds you out, say hell NO!

If you need some time to wrap your head around this idea, be honest and say so. My advice is discuss this first HONESTLY, and find out what else he wants to do that you don't know about yet. Get ALL the facts, the whole truth behind this and then decide.

How long have you been together? How old are you both? Do you live together?

How long has he been your boyfriend and how do you feel about all of this? If it doesn't bother you, cool. If it does, then you need to be honest with him and tell him you can't deal with a guy who is into looking and smelling like a female.

My opinion... Good grief.

I see him wanting to wear your panties and skirts too in the near future.

But he's your boyfriend...you have to decide if you are cool with it or not. Apparently some are, and some aren't from what I've heard.

Time for a serious talk, of where this will go and his real feelings on sexuality.

Is he really into more cross dressing, or is it more than that.

And how are you about it? He will get stares, and maybe even hit on by men sometimes, how will you handle that?

Perfume, I agree, some of the women's do smell a lot better than men's options.