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MissxxxDrama
Apr 12, 2007, 05:18 AM
Help!
There is a girl who goes to my skl in 6th form- and I think she is the coolest person ever!
But the problem is I'm obbssessed with her!
I don't know what to do its like some sort of crush!
I constantly talk about her and weneva I see her I get really embarrssed- evreyone thinks I fancy her and I'm definitely not a lesbein!
Help
Xxx
Krs
Apr 12, 2007, 05:21 AM
What's your question exactly?
If you are obsessed with someone that's always not good.. however, to be obsessed and constatly talk about someone then that means there is some sort of attraction.
Are you attracted to her?
Is this the first time u felt this way towards a female?
Jiser
Apr 12, 2007, 05:33 AM
Generally at sixth form age, your beginning to come to terms with what sexually attracts you and what doesn't. Perhaps you may have feelings for this person? I wouldn't say being obsessed with someone of the same sex makes you necessarily gay, but its definitely not healthy.
I know when I was younger I had a similar obsession. Thought I was gay, turns out I wasn't. What helped me is simply not seeing the person, I got over it!
Growing up, its all a confusing time and the funny thing is we never stop growing and learning from life!
aazndj
Apr 12, 2007, 06:51 AM
Well I don't know what to say but tell her how you feel and then maybe you will feel better OK just try to come front her OK