Hi I have discovered some guy I know who is married that has been on adult friend finder since August 2009 so has been on for years also has cheated from what I hear. I know his wife somewhat but not sure if I should say something. Im pretty much torn about it, If it was me I would want to know. Not sure should I tell her.

Stay out of his business. The problem is you really don't know, just HEARD he was cheating.

Obviously you have been talking to others already about him, and it's gossip!! YOU shouldn't act on someone else's gossip, RIGHT?

Actually no I saw him myself he is on that site. And has chatted etc long story but I know for a face he has chatted and cheated.

Actually no I saw him myself he is on that site. And has chatted etc long story but I know for a face he has chatted and cheated.

Just because he is on a site and has chatted with people does not equate to cheating.

Best to mind your own business... things have a way of backfiring on you. Particularly since you are jumping to conclusions. Unless he's been out on a date with you, then you don't know for a fact what he has and hasn't done.

Wow are you really lacking drama in your life? Can I send some your way? What business is it of yours what they do? Maybe he has her permission? These are just some of the questions I have.


Actually no I saw him myself he is on that site. And has chatted etc long story but I know for a face he has chatted and cheated.

Hi I have discovered some guy I know who is married that has been on adult friend finder since August 2009 so has been on for years also has cheated from what I hear. I know his wife somewhat but not sure if I should say something. Im pretty much torn about it, If it was me I would want to know. Not sure should I tell her.

From what you hear, and know for FACT is quite a stretch... so leave this alone.

What's the long story?

It would be nice, if she knew, but not from you.

"also has cheated from what I hear." So what exactly is your involvement here? MYOB

Hi no involvement but yes will stay out of it thanks