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lilipo
Aug 2, 2015, 11:21 AM
Ok so about 2 years ago, junior year, I met this guy in my class. I didn't think much of him until he started talking to me. He seemed pretty cool. One day in class he started randomly flirting with me, grabbing me, kissing my neck etc. I thought It was so random but I liked it for some odd reason... He kept flirting with me the whole year and I started developing feelings for him. I fell so hard for him, I REALLY REALLY liked him. I started to think of how good we would look as a couple but I knew it wasn't going to happen because... he had a girlfriend. I didn't know this until a few months after started to like him. I was upset but not that upset because she lived in a different state. Then she moved and came to my school. That was when I knew nothing was going to happen between us. The funny thing is is that he continued to flirt with me. Maybe he didn't consider it as flirting but I did because I really liked him. Senior year I got over him. We actually became a little bit closer that year. I actually went over his house with my friends one time. I told him I used to like him just to get that off my chest. Long story short I keep dreaming about him. I would dream about him when I liked him and the dreams kept coming even after I got over him. Im in college now and to this day I still dream about him. I just had a dream about him today. We were kissing. Another dream I had about him I ran towards him and jumped on him to congratulate him on winning his football game. He actually played football in high school... WHY DO I KEEP DREAMING ABOUT HIM

talaniman
Aug 2, 2015, 01:31 PM
WHY DO I KEEP DREAMING ABOUT HIM?

Because you like him, maybe more than you admit to yourself, and maybe you haven't really gotten over it. May I ask if you date a lot? Or taken chances at romance with others?

lilipo
Aug 2, 2015, 01:54 PM
Yes, Ive had romances with others

Homegirl 50
Aug 2, 2015, 02:58 PM
You like him and you allowed him to take liberties with you when you shouldn't have. Does he still have a girlfriend and has he ever indicated to you that he likes you? Maybe you are in wishful thinking mode.

lilipo
Aug 2, 2015, 03:24 PM
He doesn't have a girlfriend anymore. He ever told me he liked me. I don't think I'm in wishful thinking mode. I don't like him and we haven't talked face to face in a year. He's just always ends up in my dreams for some reason. Other boys that I used to like have ended up in my dreams but they eventually stop. Only he has been constantly in my dreams

Homegirl 50
Aug 2, 2015, 08:57 PM
Who knows. Maybe you are lonely