Hey there, this is my first question, and it has been bugging me so much! Just to let you know, I'm about to go into Year 7, with good grades and all that. So please when you answer, please don't write silly things. Okay.

I have had this crush for around 2-5 weeks, and I love him so much! I just want to know a lot of things, if he likes me and all that. It's so confusing. Basically the beginning of when I started to like him was in Tennis, we were both good. And basically I had this best friend who played against him, and he was quite mean to her, saying stuff like "CHEATER!" Cause he lost, and then when he versed her again and he won and was saying stuff like "see I am better you cheat!" So then it was my go to verse him, it was around 5 mins before the end of lunch, and I lost, and he shakes my hand and after I got my water he comes give me a hug saying "At least you don't cheat.." And about a minute ago I was sticking up for my best friend!

He was the fastest boy, I was the fastest girl. I know where he lives, he lives so close to me. And I saw him one thursday night and he stole my chew it's :). Lol. Basically, it's the end of year 6 :( we both are going to different secondary schools, I had his number but when I phoned it declined straight away, and people were saying his phone broke. The last time I saw him was last Monday.. He waved at me, then I waved back in a flirty way, and he waved back and smirked... Damn, If my secondary is bad I'm moving to that school, especially cause I am very smart.

Anyway, he would say I'm in front of my best friend in football cause he wanted me in his all boy team. He jokes around with me all the time and teases me.. But obviously that's for getting attention. We both laugh at each other. And he was like to someone "Yeah, gimme your number" and people thought he was talking to me. The question is, do you think he likes me?? How could I see him again.

First crush? Don't chase him like a silly kid, or make big changes to be around him. Be cool and control your hormones and see what he does. If he liked you like you like him, he would be trying to get YOUR number to call YOU.

Don't freak out because a boy gives you a little attention.

First crush? Don't chase him like a silly kid, or make big changes to be around him. Be cool and control your hormones and see what he does. If he liked you like you like him, he would be trying to get YOUR number to call YOU.

Don't freak out because a boy gives you a little attention.


Umm.. Thanks for your advice, although I don't get some of it. How am I freaking out? I am asking a question if my crush likes me or not. His phone broke.. I tried calling him because he said to me after school when he phones me it doesn't work.. So I tried calling him but I found out his phone is broke..

Puppy love!! We have no idea if HE likes you, how would we know?

Before trying to make excuses to see him again think about what you told us about him in the second paragraph. He accused your friend of cheating because she won. He is a poor loser. Then he taunts her after he wins. That makes him a poor winner as well. You lose and he hugs you? If you had won, how do you think he would have reacted?

Along with his poor sportsmanship, he is trying to put a wedge between you and your best friend. How much does your friendship mean to you? Is it worth the attention from this male?

Frankly, I wouldn't put any more energy into this male.

I know that isn't what you want to hear. I do sympathize but I think you may need to pay more attention to how he treats/treated other people. How does he treat your friend, other females, his male friends, anyone he competes against, etc.?

I am going to suggest that you keep an open mind when you start the new school. I have a feeling that you will be meeting a lot more males who will like you as much as you like them.

Ummm have you actually ingested some of the advice ummm, think about it, a little maybe.

His phone is broke ! Oh my gosh, you may actually have to catch up to him and actually talk to him !

Cat, you are so diplomatic !

Before trying to make excuses to see him again think about what you told us about him in the second paragraph. He accused your friend of cheating because she won. He is a poor loser. Then he taunts her after he wins. That makes him a poor winner as well. You lose and he hugs you? If you had won, how do you think he would have reacted?

Along with his poor sportsmanship, he is trying to put a wedge between you and your best friend. How much does your friendship mean to you? Is it worth the attention from this male?

Frankly, I wouldn't put any more energy into this male.

I know that isn't what you want to hear. I do sympathize but I think you may need to pay more attention to how he treats/treated other people. How does he treat your friend, other females, his male friends, anyone he competes against, etc.?

I am going to suggest that you keep an open mind when you start the new school. I have a feeling that you will be meeting a lot more males who will like you as much as you like them.

Thank you for the advice.. This was better than the others to be honest. Well, he is silly, popular and he gets in trouble. But to me he is so kind. And he teases me in a good way and we both laugh. Another thing what happened is that me and my enemy were arguing when we were performing, my crush was sitting between my enemy and I. He said to my enemy "shush and listen!!" And he said to me "shhh you little plonker" and he said it In a really polite tone. Just to let you know me and him mess around with each other calling each other "Plonker" then laugh. He always comes near me.

He has male friends who he treats amazingly. He has two best friends who are literally the "Head boy" and "deputy" and they treat each other amazingly.
He is kind to other females but he does call most of the female friends he has "annoying".

I've won against him in tennis, and then he says "alright, good game." And gives me a hug. He has been good in class, same with bad. And you know having the good guys just isn't my type. I don't know why, I am weird and crazy. He is at least both good and bad. Thanks for being kind unlike most of the others.

Ummm have you actually ingested some of the advice ummm, think about it, a little maybe.

His phone is broke ! Oh my gosh, you may actually have to catch up to him and actually talk to him !

Cat, you are so diplomatic !

Hey hey, I am only going into year 7. No need for the attitude. When he "GAVE" me his number his phone was all right. He told me the next day he tried calling me but it wasn't working. Then I said everything's all right with my phone, I thought it was his phone that was breaking. After school me and him came together and I tried calling him. It didn't work. Then I called my best friend and it worked. The next day morning he couldn't even type, or select an app.


Puppy love!! We have no idea if HE likes you, how would we know?
Why did you comment then? Simple.

Attitude ? No, don't think so but truth be told, we can't possibly know if he likes you.

The thing you need to really understand is asking strangers if your bad boy type likes you is an impossible thing to answer since you both are strangers to us. The real question should be what do YOU do about your own hormone driven feelings of attraction to this fellow.

At your ages you like each other in different ways, and while you have intense romance and want him to feel the same, he is a BOY, and loves the idea of people liking him, and letting him know it. We all get you want to be top girl (HIS GIRL) in HIS clique, and have the entourage he has, protecting you from your "enemies" and have all your "friends" envy your position. And it's so normal for young girls coming through puberty to love the attention of such popular males.

All I say is be careful how YOU behave, and pay attention while you are having big fun with the thrill of these new feelings. I think it pays to listen to those that have gone through this already, and pay attention. While you are so caught up in getting answers from strangers about what some boy feels about you, you need to understand the real answer is seeing what he does when you are not on stage at school, and if he MAKES time for you after school, and how he does that... phone, or no phone because if he just likes you at school, then it should be obvious he doesn't like you the way you like him.

Make sense?

The thing you need to really understand is asking strangers if your bad boy type likes you is an impossible thing to answer since you both are strangers to us. The real question should be what do YOU do about your own hormone driven feelings of attraction to this fellow.

At your ages you like each other in different ways, and while you have intense romance and want him to feel the same, he is a BOY, and loves the idea of people liking him, and letting him know it. We all get you want to be top girl (HIS GIRL) in HIS clique, and have the entourage he has, protecting you from your "enemies" and have all your "friends" envy your position. And it's so normal for young girls coming through puberty to love the attention of such popular males.

All I say is be careful how YOU behave, and pay attention while you are having big fun with the thrill of these new feelings. I think it pays to listen to those that have gone through this already, and pay attention. While you are so caught up in getting answers from strangers about what some boy feels about you, you need to understand the real answer is seeing what he does when you are not on stage at school, and if he MAKES time for you after school, and how he does that... phone, or no phone because if he just likes you at school, then it should be obvious he doesn't like you the way you like him.

Make sense?

Sorry man. It all makes sense now, I apologise for misunderstanding you.