I left to California this summer to meet my boyfriend of 2 years, we've been dating online. A couples days later after I arrived he took me on a magical date and we decided to have sex, it was my first time, he ejaculated outside of me, but I haven't gotten my period. We only had intercourse once on the that same day we met. I had my period on the 21st of June, it's now July 27 and I haven't gotten my period. My breast kind of hurt but just the nipple, I have cramps, and after meals I'm nacious, I'm very scared to be pregnant because he told me he didn't want the baby. After I got back to Dallas we decided that long distance wasn't going to be oir thing anymore, I've just been stressing so much. I have enough problems that a baby is just driving me to think about suicide. Please let me know some advice anf your experiences. I can't rely on any family members, I'm only 15..

Yes, pregnancy is a possibility. However, stress can cause a late or missed period as well.

Give that you are only 15, it is entirely possible that you are just having a cycle that is out of the norm for you. If you haven't gotten your period in another week, it would be wise to take a pregnancy test using first morning urine.

First things first... odds are you are not pregnant. Your period may just be late this month. Wait several more days, and if still no period, you can try a home pregnancy test. These can be purchased inexpensively. Best to try the test with first morñing urine... following the directions carefully.

If you aren't pregnant, I hope you will learn several things from the experience.

1) your boyfriend showed his true feelings... he cared more about his wants (having sex with you) than he did about your well-being. You now know that he wasn't going to really be there for you.

2) you simply can not take chances with your health and well being. YOU have to take care of and protect yourself

3) there is no way that you would be in a good position to raise a baby now, so be smart and don't take anymore chances. Sometimes you have to do what you know is right; listen to your head, and not listen to your heart that gets all mushy with love and can easily cause you to make bad choices.

Did your family know about this guy? Did they know you went to California to spend time with him? If you find that you think you need to be secretive about something, it is most likely something you shouldn't be doing. That little voice in your head is there for a reason... don't ignore it!

Again... after several days, take a test if need be. Suicide is certainly not an answer for any challenge or difficult times you may experience in life. You will have more challenges as you go along through your life journey. These opportunities teach you things about yourself. They help you to become the kind of person you want to. They help you to become more compassionate and tolerant of others. They are there for a purpose.

Let us know how this goes for you.

How old is this "boyfriend" and it appears he really was just a online person you chatted with for 2 years, Then had sex, the first day you meet.

Now after meeting and having sex, the online dating is over also.

Guess what, if you do have the baby, it does not matter what the boy thinks, he will have to pay child support till the baby is at least 18 or more. **most likely that is what he really does not want.

Do you have this man's home and work information?

First, I agree with the others that it is probably stress delaying your period, but pregnancy is a possibility. So wait another week and get a Home pregnancy Test and use it according to instructions.

But I am curious about this trip. Were your parents aware of the purpose? Who paid for the trip? Was it at the boyfriend's insistence? How old is he? Are you sure about his age and contact info? It really sounds like this could be a pedophile who groomed you into having sex with him. And he could be in serious legal trouble.

As to wanting the baby, he doesn't have to want it, but he does have to support it should you choose to keep it.