Hi all, please advice...im on whatsapp with my current girlfreind but im like the only one who alway have somwthing to say, when text her she would answer what i said/asked end of the storry, im like the only one who is entittled to say good morning/goodnight, i've asked her about this..her respond was "im always busy,dont worry i love you i won't play with your feelings" but i still find it pretty hard to believe or trust her, its only been three weeks since we started dating...am i reading too much into this or i am the only one in love in this relationship? well i've asked her about what her previous relationship but she thought it was a bad idea to talk about it, it has come to my attension that its either she is still inlove with her ex or she just doesnt understand what i need..i would like to here your views

Hi all, please advice...im on whatsapp with my current girlfreind but im like the only one who alway have somwthing to say, when text her she would answer what i said/asked end of the storry, im like the only one who is entittled to say good morning/goodnight, i've asked her about this..her respond was "im always busy,dont worry i love you i won't play with your feelings" but i still find it pretty hard to believe or trust her, its only been three weeks since we started dating...am i reading too much into this or i am the only one in love in this relationship? well i've asked her about what her previous relationship but she thought it was a bad idea to talk about it, it has come to my attension that its either she is still inlove with her ex or she just doesnt understand what i need..i would like to here your views

You've only been dating 3 weeks... you AREN'T "In love". And at 3 weeks... you are hardly even dating yet.

You need to tone it down a bit and back off. You are being awful needy and demanding. That is NEVER an endearing quality.

Also...her previous relationships are really not your business. At three weeks you don't get to make demands....in fact you don't after 3 years of dating.

You are driving her away.

Noted,thanks smoothy

Do you actually go out on dates, or interact in person? How did you meet her? 3 weeks is still stranger zone and there is no such thing as instant girlfriends. You call interacting on an app love??

You have got to be kidding right? You seem to go from one contrived love affair to another one guy.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/love-ex-813280.html

Neither seems to be productive or healthy, or even FUN.

We were in a relationship once in 2007 but I moved from where I used to stay,we never broke up we just lost contact,we found each other again early this year and then last month we decided to give us onother chance because of what we felt, my only problem here is I don't think she feels thr same way

Do you actually go out on dates, or interact in person?

Yes I was with her on Monday, we cuddled and kissed.. though I wasn't happy about the way she kisses.I don't want to say she is a bad kisser because she is probably thinking the same about me... what she did was hold my heard tighter against her forehead I could not even move my lips.planned to go out next week. What are the things do you think I should look at that will make me see what is she about

Is this the same ex as you asked about before, or a different one? Why do I get the sense that you and her are on different pages and can't talk to each other? What makes you think you can go back to an ex you had 8 years ago and pickup where you left off.

Bet you were kids then, and are now adults. How old are you both? What's up with these exes of yours and why haven't you tried something new and fresh? Sorry guy, you haven't even begin to give a whole story. WHY NOT?

So you hooked up with an ex from 8 years ago and are proclaiming love already?
Maybe she is not feeling it for you. Back off! Maybe being a couple is not in the cards for you two.

Very little creeps me out more than the person who needs to text mindless drivel throughout the day and night. Mindless drivel is the kindest term I will use in a public forum.
If I had such a boyfriend... wait, I would never have such a boyfriend!

She might finds you annoying. Why are you always the one who sends her a message? Send her 2-5 days not and wait until she sends you. If she doesn't then know that she isn't worth it.

Don't ever play games with people. If she does not respond to you if you don't message her for a couple of days, it does not mean she is not worth it, it means she is just not in to you. Back off from her, you are coming on way too strong and needy.

Thank you guys, I'm the one with a problem here, I guess I really must back off.. should she not respond I will then know where we stand. Answer to all your questions " i loved her back then and i never stopped" but I am more than willing to apply all your advises. I will then move on