Okay so on April 23rd I had unprotected sex with a guy (lord help me I don't know why I really do regret it) but around the 26th I had real bad cramps like the ones I get when my period is getting ready to come on. Then when I got up to go wipe myself that night I seen bright red blood but it wasn't on my panties. Then that morning when I woke up, it was bright red and on my panties and had a little cramping, but my period was on the 1st of that month. By the way I had to take pills for these cramps and I thought it was weird when I starting bleeding because my period was suppose to come on a week later(1st of May) and I mean it felt like my period. I felt yucky and I had blood clots like really big really red blood clots so that lasts to the end of the month.

Then I met this other guy and we started seeing each other. Then on the 8th of May we had unprotected sex and we had unprotected sex a few times after that then on the 17th of May I took a family dollar pregnancy test and it came back negative then on the 18th of May me and the guy I'm seeing now had unprotected sex, then on the 20th I had spotting very light pink color when I wiped and that was only that one time. Then on on 29th took a pregnancy test and it came back positive it was the first response one. Then on the 1st of June I had very light spotting again but it was only that one time then when I went to the doctor she said I was five weeks.

Basically my question is the first time I had unprotected sex was in April then I started bleeding was that implantation bleeding or was it implantation bleeding on the 20th of May or was the implantation bleeding on June 1st? Please I need help I really hope it wasn't implantation in April. Just need some answers and some explanation

The bad news, with the closeness of the encounters there is no way to say which person actually fertilized you. That is going to have to be a DNA test once your little one is born. The chances of it being the second fellow are higher then the first, but it isn't enough to put exact odds on it. I will explain below.

What did the doctor base the 5 weeks on? Usually they go by hormone levels at that stage, but also base it on your start of your Last Menstrual Period, when you started to bleed but we could lookat it at about may 1st ish. Which is why it is skewed to Partner #2. The problem is that sperm can live in your body for a period, and if you ovulate just right, it can fertilize the egg and person 1 could be the father. The chances tend to lie with person 2 but not completely.

Now comes the hard question. Does person two and person one know that you're pregnant? Have you had that talk with either of them? IE, what happens if, by having sex and even protected sex, you become pregnant, what happens? Marriage? Common Law? Abortion? Adoption? Fostering? I think there are many conversations that you need to have with both men and ensure you have a DNA test once the child is born.

I will agree, there is no way to know, conception date, because they are all two close. At best, if you rule out guy one (I do not think you can) it would still leave the other two. Conception is give or take a week and sometimes two week, estimate.

So do the guys know about the other guys ? ** not to mention all sorts of issues about STD's from multiple partners with no protection.

But if you give birth, you will have to have DNA tests, to help determine the identity of the father.

You are supposed to be confused having unprotected sex with multiple partners in so small a timeframe. Now you have to wait and see who the father is and that is not only stressful, but brings with it even more issues, like informing the men you are pregnant, and might be the father, dealing with family and friends while pregnant and not knowing who the father is, which only adds to the confusion, and emotional upheaval.

Basically for now there are really no answers to your questions to identify your baby daddy at this stage of the process, nor clear up the confusion of having unprotected sex with more than one partner in a short time frame.

The real question is not who is the baby daddy, but who you tell the truth to, and who helps you through this until you can answer the question of who the baby daddy REALLY is. Sorry but you cannot avoid the consequences of your past decisions, and actions, only try to make better ones going forward.

You could use the advice of a close older female to help you with this dilemma. It won't end your confusion, but at least you won't go through this ALONE.

Good luck.