mohammad nuhh
Jun 3, 2015, 06:13 PM
Its like when I asked her to u believe in allah or any other god.. She was lke if I CN feel it touch it.. Then only I can believe that thng!!
What should I answer her.. And whiling to show her the right path. Help me sir
talaniman
Jun 3, 2015, 07:51 PM
You lead by a good example and if she follows then great. If she is unwilling though, she has to choose her own path.
CravenMorhead
Jun 4, 2015, 07:12 AM
You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. Confronting a person about their faith, or trying to change it, is the surest way to lose them as a friend. Faith and belief are intensely personal things. They affect their world view and their reality to an extend. You have no business trying to change it, it is disrespectful and rude. What you can do is be supportive and answer questions when you can. You can be the start of the path, but you can only walk with her, you can't lead her.
I am a atheist like this woman and I have had relationships and friendships end because the person tried to show me the path and show me their faith and how it should be my faith too. What you need to understand is that she's got her own faith and it is as real and valid as yours. She, like you, has a world view and has made sense and peace with reality. IT works for her.