If a 20 yr old guy fingers a 15 year old girl and she lies to the cops and said she had no problem with it, what would happen?? What can she say to NOT get him in trouble... and to possibly not get her parents to find out?:confused: :(

she lies to the cops and said she had no problem with it

So, she did have a problem with it? This is a little confusing. Is she lying to protect him from getting in trouble for assaulting her?

How are the cops involved? Did someone complain? Was someone hurt? There is not enough on this post and what is here is confusing.

So you did have a problem with it?
A lot would depend on the state and the age of consent in said state. Most states he will be in deep doo doo. -- Savage

So, she did have a problem with it?! This is a little confusing. Is she lying to protect him from getting in trouble for assaulting her?

How are the cops involved? Did someone complain? Was someone hurt? There is not enough on this post and what is here is confusing.


Yea she did, and she is protecting him... she never said no so she feels like it's her fault, but then she doesn't really care and she likes the guy... she told a staff member at school... and the staff member got the cop involved... she just wants this to all go away... :(

Ok, and now, which state are you... I mean, is she in? ;)

So you did have a problem with it?
A lot would depend on the state and the age of consent in said state. Most states he will be in deep doo doo. -- Savage

I didn't have a problem, I just want it to all go away... he's 20 and I'm well... u know... l5... sooooo.the cop wants a bunch of info and I don't want to say anything and my friend and her familt could get in trouble because it happened at her house... ughhh... I hate that stupid person... I just wanted to talk and the next thing I know I'm talking to a cop... not cool...
:(

Ok girl
A 20 year old having any type of sexual activity with a 15 year old is wrong, and most places illegal.
Add the fact she was not willing make me want to see him under the jail not in it.

And yes the parents will be involved. The school will be notifying then to protect the school. If they did not when the parents do find out the school will be wide open for a law suit.

The my friend line always tickles me. -- Savage

Ok, and now, which state are you...i mean, is she in? ;)


I don't know what state I'm in... I'm just so confused and upset... I don't do well under pressure... I'm just so scared of what's going to happen tomarrow... their going to call me and my friend down to the office and try and talk to us... I just want to know what the best thing to say is to make sure he can't get in trouble!

Sweetblood, don't panic. Take a deep breath. You don't know which state you are in right now? Take it easy.

First you said you had a problem with what he did, now you say you didn't. Which is it?

And, I would be grateful to the person who contacted the cops because people like that help protect our children against predators. So, don't be angry at them.

Now, take a deep breath. If you consented to whatever you did with this guy, let the cop know. If you didn't, it is even more important that you tell them. You are very young and he is an adult. If anyone is to be blamed, it is him. So, just be honest to the cops, and to your parents.

About getting in trouble with your parents: Everyone makes mistakes. Realise and admit you made a mistake and in time, this will be behind both you and your parents.
Next time, be smarter and be more aware of who you trust yourself with. Don't grow up too fast.

Ok girl
A 20 year old having any type of sexual activity with a 15 year old is wrong, and most places illegal.
Add in the fact she was not willing make me want to see him under the jail not in it.

And yes the parents will be involved. The school will be notifying then to protect the school. If they did not when the parents do find out the school will be wide open for a law suit.


I know it's wrong... but I never told him not to... I didn't really care... I just wanted to talk about it... and now I have to talk to a cop?? I just want to say all the right things so NOBODY GETS IN TROUBLE!!

sweetblood, don't panic. Take a deep breath. You don't know which state you are in right now? Take it easy.

First you said you had a problem with what he did, now you say you didn't. Which is it?

And, I would be grateful to the person who contacted the cops because people like that help protect our children against predators. So, don't be angry at them.

Now, take a deep breath. If you consented to whatever you did with this guy, let the cop know. If you didn't, it is even more important that you tell them. You are very young and he is an adult. If anyone is to be blamed, it is him. So, just be honest to the cops, and to your parents


I kind of had a problem... only because my friend was in the room!! :eek: gross!! But I didn't have a problem with what he did...

The most important thing is to not lie. Be honest. Tell them exactly what happened. This man should've known that what he was doing was not only wrong but illegal. So, he was taking a risk and it's not your fault he has to now face the music.
Just be HONEST and you will be fine.

The most important thing is to not lie. Be honest. Tell them exactly what happened. This man should've known that what he was doing was not only wrong but illegal. So, he was taking a risk and it's not your fault he has to now face the music.
Just be HONEST and you will be fine.

But I really don't want to get him in trouble!! I know it's wrong... but he didn't know that I was that age, and he's the first guy that didn't force it on me... so I'm grateful for that and don't think he should pay a price for not raping me... this is just soooo awful... my mom knows because they called... but my dad has no friggin clue and he's a cop himself!! Not only that but just having to see his face and know how much he's not involved in my life because he doesn't know just really hurts me a lot...

Your not the one getting him in trouble -- he dug his hole not you. If you're a 20 year old in school --you not a student -- correct?

your not the one getting him in trouble -- he dug his hole not you. If your a 20 year old in school --you not a student -- correct?


I'm a student in high school... if that's your question...

Excuse me --I did not proof read -- meant is he a student -- Savage

excuse me --I did not proof read -- meant is he a student -- Savage
No, he has a job and lives at his dads house.

So what the heck was he doing in a school? Non students are banned from schools without a good reason to be there. And at 20 at least 1/2 the girls there are jail bait. Face it girl -- he dug his hole not you -- Savage

So what the heck was he doing in a school? non students are banned from schools without a good reason to be there. And at 20 at least 1/2 the girls there are jail bait. Face it girl -- he dug his hole not you -- Savage

He was never at school... and I don't want to get him in trouble.. I'm trying to get him not in trouble.. so stop telling me I should

This is my worst fear. My sister is 14 and I see older guys looking at her all the time. Honey, the reason this guy is going to be in trouble is because what he did was wrong. I don't believe for a second he did not know how old you are. I could tell your age from your post! A guy who is 20 should not be hanging around 15 year old girls. Its not normal and a guy who is twenty and sleeping with a 15 year old girl is doing so because he can't meet girls his own age. This should be a big warning to you. I do understand that a young girl will want to be with older guys because we all thought we were so mature at that age, so this is not your fault. I admit I was 15 when I met my first boyfriend and he was 17, but I was almost 16 and we waited 8 months to have sex and it was everything it was meant to be. I was old enough to discuss contraception and stay over night regularly and we were together for years. This is different, a quick fumble is such a seedy situation is him taking advantage of you. You may not have said no but he obviously didn't ask you if this was something you wanted and were ready for, did he? You should not lie for him, he needs to face the consequences of what he has done. He is old enough to know what he was doing was wrong. He won't go to prison for just touching you but he will learn not to do things like this again and your friends family will know not to leave him alone with you. Why was he there by the way? He wasn't your friends brother or relative was he?
As for your attitude about you not thinking he should pay the price for not raping you, I find this scary! Not raping you was not nice of him, nobody should be even remotely even thinking about doing anything to you that you don't want them to. Are you saying other people have forced themselves on you in the past?

This is my worst fear. My sister is 14 and I see older guys looking at her all the time. Honey, the reason this guy is going to be in trouble is because what he did was wrong. I dont believe for a second he did not know how old you are. I could tell your age from your post! A guy who is 20 should not be hanging around 15 year old girls. Its not normal and a guy who is twenty and sleeping with a 15 year old girl is doing so because he can't meet girls his own age. This should be a big warning to you. I do understand that a young girl will want to be with older guys because we all thought we were so mature at that age, so this is not your fault. I admit I was 15 when I met my first boyfriend and he was 17, but I was almost 16 and we waited 8 months to have sex and it was everything it was meant to be. I was old enought to discuss contraception and stay over night regularly and we were together for years. This is different, a quick fumble is such a seedy situation is him taking advantage of you. You may not have said no but he obviously didnt ask you if this was something you wanted and were ready for, did he? You should not lie for him, he needs to face the consequences of what he has done. He is old enough to know what he was doing was wrong. He wont go to prison for just touching you but he will learn not to do things like this again and your friends family will know not to leave him alone with you. Why was he there by the way? He wasnt your friends brother or relative was he?
As for your attitude about you not thinking he should pay the price for not raping you, I find this scary! Not raping you was not nice of him, nobody should be even remotely even thinking about doing anything to you that you dont want them to. Are you saying other people have forced themselves on you in the past?

You.other people have forced it but he was sorry for it later and he thought I was l6 because my friend is and that's why he was over there be because we were so bored at her house with nothing to do... what would happen to him though?? If I told them the truth (they don't have enough info to do anything yet)

if a 20 yr old guy fingers a 15 year old girl and she lies to the cops and said she had no problem with it, what would happen??? what can she say to NOT get him in trouble.....and to possibly not get her parents to find out?:confused: :(
What is meant by what state are you in is literally that. Mississippi, Vermont , Utah, etc. Local laws vary and in many of them a 15 year old can't legally have sex with a 20 year old period. Others there is no problem. Consensual or not , Its at the least statutory rape in most of the USA worse if it was forced.

What is meant by what state are you in is literally that. Mississippi, Vermont , Utah, etc. Local laws vary and in many of them a 15 year old can't legally have sex with a 20 year old period. Others there is no problem. Consensual or not , Its at the least statutory rape in most of the USA worse if it was forced.


Well.this is CT... and yeah that sucks for me doesn't it?

I'm not even going to conribute any answer to this question, since it contains a child. A man should never touch a child, doesn't matter how old the child may think she is.

Age of consent in CT is 16. What he did was a Class C felony.

There is nothing you can say that will keep him out of trouble without getting you into trouble instead. Once the authorities know, they know, and you've said yourself there is another witness. They don't need any statement from you to prosecute.

I have a daughter that is 13 and if this man ever touches her so help me god I will... well, my answer would get deleted if I said what I would really do.

Sweet, this man is sick and needs to be stopped. He is a child predator and needs to have his balls cut off.

Sorry, you don't want him to get in trouble, but do you want him doing this to a 9 year old? Well, I betcha he will eventually if he is not stopped.

Ok, I know I will be really unpopular here. Please don't slate me, but 20 and 15 is not the same as 20 and 9 is it? She said herself he thought she was 16 and we don't know that she doesn't look it. At 16 I looked 18-19 easily. I don't think this guy has to have a thing for little girls to find a 15 year old attractive. What he did was VERY wrong, he should not have acted on the impulse, but its not in the same league as child abuse, is it? I know she is somebodys baby, but she always will be. That is, provided he did not force himself on her. If that were the case I would hand you the scissors J_9. In England I am sad to say he would probably get off with a caution if she said it was not forced as she is over 14. It is possible that he has made a mistake, that this was a one off and that he believed she was 16 and she wanted to do this, but I think this really is down to the police and social services to look into. I think she should tell the whole truth because if they think she is lying they could read more into it than really happened, and he should face the consequences for his actions. It worries me though, that at 15 you have been in two situations where something so awful can happen to you. Honey I really think you need to be learning from these things. They were not your fault at all but please try not to let yourself get in such dangerous situations, not just while you are under 16 but ever. As women we are unfortunate that we are so much more likely to fall victim to sexual attacks and they can happen at any time with any man. Putting yourself in a situation where you are alone or as good as with a man you do not know can end up in some scary situations. Please be more careful. Your friends parents should have known better than to let this man in their house and be alone with two young girls. Out of interest, how did your mother respond?

Ok, I know I will be really unpopular here. Please dont slate me, but 20 and 15 is not the same as 20 and 9 is it? She said herself he thought she was 16 and we dont know that she doesnt look it. At 16 I looked 18-19 easily. I dont think this guy has to have a thing for little girls to find a 15 year old attractive. What he did was VERY wrong, he should not have acted on the impulse, but its not in the same league as child abuse, is it? I know she is somebodys baby, but she always will be. That is, provided he did not force himself on her. If that were the case I would hand you the scissors J_9. In England I am sad to say he would probably get off with a caution if she said it was not forced as she is over 14. It is possible that he has made a mistake, that this was a one off and that he believed she was 16 and she wanted to do this, but I think this really is down to the police and social services to look into. I think she should tell the whole truth because if they think she is lying they could read more into it than really happened, and he should face the consequences for his actions. It worries me though, that at 15 you have been in two situations where something so awful can happen to you. Honey I really think you need to be learning from these things. They were not your fault at all but please try not to let yourself get in such dangerous situations, not just while you are under 16 but ever. As women we are unfortunate that we are so much more likely to fall victim to sexual attacks and they can happen at any time with any man. Putting yourself in a situation where you are alone or as good as with a man you do not know can end up in some scary situations. Please be more careful. Your friends parents should have known better than to let this man in their house and be alone with two young girls. Out of interest, how did your mother respond?


Thank you! Where did all this "child abuse, predator" come from?? I'm not a child! "child" is more like 5-11 yrs old... what gives? And what would happen to me if I do lie... the people at my school haven't seen me since Tuesday and now it's almost Saturday morning... I've only been absent once and that was yesterday... so they could have found me if they "needed to talk"... so is it over for now... or are they going to bring it up again?? And my doctor knows thanks to my loudmouth mother! Just friggin great!:D :mad:

I have a daughter that is 13 and if this man ever touches her so help me god I will......... well, my answer would get deleted if I said what I would really do.

Sweet, this man is sick and needs to be stopped. he is a child predator and needs to have his balls cut off.

Sorry, you don't want him to get in trouble, but do you want him doing this to a 9 year old? Well, I betcha he will eventually if he is not stopped.
Well guess what... I'm not nine!! He would not rape a 9 yr old... omg... he's not stupid and a sick twisted freak that needs to get his balls cut off.. thats what someone who's not in my situation would say!

if a 20 yr old guy fingers a 15 year old girl and she lies to the cops and said she had no problem with it, what would happen??? what can she say to NOT get him in trouble.....and to possibly not get her parents to find out?:confused: :(


Oh yeah... by the way people... I'm probably going to be hanging out with him again soon... can't wait for that to happen... and I WILL BE SAFE!! He won't do anything if I tell him not to... maybe you people don't get that part of the story well enough... :cool: hahaha... more info for us! But mainly me! And he did say he was really TRULY SORRY for what he did which is the main reason why I don't think he should get in trouble... I told him I was l6, I never said no, and I did pretty much want it... soooooo... the only problem is the short time frame age difference... had this happen after August 7, 2007... it would be fine... but it happened April 7 instead...

Nice mature answer... you can tell by your posts that you are only 15. Also by any state or even morals that it young. You probably won't be hanging out with him because he will be in jail... or he will be banned from seeing you. I hate to burst your bubble but that is probably what is going to happen. You need to think about your actions, because I hate to say it sweetie a twenty year old isn't going to be happy with fingering for long. There is no short-frame age difference you two are six years apart. Before you can engage in sexual acts you need to mature more, because from the sound of it sex is just an act. Sex has consequences.

Nice mature answer...you can tell by your posts that you are only 15. Also by any state or even morals that it young. You probably won't be hanging out with him becuase he will be in jail...or he will be banned from seeing you. I hate to burst your bubble but that is probably what is going to happen. You need to think about your actions, becuase I hate to say it sweetie a twenty year old isn't going to be happy with fingering for long. There is no short-frame age difference you two are six years apart. Before you can engage in sexual acts you need to mature more, becuase from the sound of it sex is just an act. Sex has consequences.


Uh yeah... I know that... I'm not some mentally challenged kid who might not know better... I didn't make him do that... and if your going to write crap you know I don't want to read, then don't bother!! And I'm the last person you are going to talk about sex having consequences... you must not have read my other posts because THEY CLEARLY SAY THIS IS NOT MY FIRST TIME WITH THIS SH!T, AND THAT I'VE BEEN THROUGH THIS BEFORE!! And with the way guys have treated me... I've only seen sex as an act that guys do to make themselves feel better, while they're hurting me! Read what I've wrote and maybe then what you say might make a small, small, very very small... difference.. and there you have it!

Either way he's probably going to be persecuted for Statuatory Rape, no matter what state he is in. Sorry!

First of all you don't need to get rude.. you are the one that got yourself in this position and are asking for adivice. If you don't want it don't ask for it. Also you have some problems that you need to work through before you contiune with this habbit you have of making men feel better. YOU DESERVE BETTER. You shouldn't be using your body to make someone else feel better when you yourself don't feel right. You aren't the only one that has had problems with men hurting them. I too have had problems but I worked through it. I seriously think that you need counseling to work through these issues y ou have. But as you say it is you life. I stand by my post because it is all true... have a great day!

Sweetblood, you have apparently made up your mind so I won't waste my words since they won't make a difference.

But, hun, please, please know that you have been warned. You are putting yourself at more risk than you need or can handle at this age. I need more convincing to see that a 20 year old has only good intentions with a 15 year old. (What is he doing hanging out with 15 year olds and not people, especially women, his own age? ) Please pay more attention and see all the blaring warning signs. 15 is a ripe, perfect age for many predators so please don't think you are immune in anyway (have you even heard of the t.v. show "To Catch a Predator"?)

Anyway, you've been warned and be prepared to face the consequences. Good luck.

sweetblood, you have apparently made up your mind so I won't waste my words since they won't make a difference.

But, hun, please, please know that you have been warned. You are putting yourself at more risk than you need or can handle at this age. I need more convincing to see that a 20 year old has only good intentions with a 15 year old. (What is he doing hanging out with 15 year olds and not people, especially women, his own age?!) Please pay more attention and see all the blaring warning signs. 15 is a ripe, perfect age for many predators so please don't think you are immune in anyway (have you even heard of the t.v. show "To Catch a Predator"?)

Anyway, you've been warned and be prepared to face the consequences. Good luck.


Yea... sure

I guess to answer your question "what can I say to NOT get him in trouble." I would say there is nothing you can do. Cops are pretty good at smelling a liar. The more you lie, the more they are going to think he did more than "fingering" and you will get him in more trouble - which is apparently what you want to avoid. You need to be honest - because you will not help him by lying.
As, others have said, there is a witness and your testimony might not even be needed.

Under the law, you are a minor, he is not - so there are serious consequences to his actions.

Suddenly its obvious why young girls need protecting. Honey, your attitude is seriously messed up! Until you learn, probably the hard way, things like this will keep happening to you. I made the mistake of asuming you were mentally in the same place as I was at your age but you clearly are not. Everyone on here has tried to help you but all you want is someone to tell you how to lie and cheat your way out of your problem, which nobody here will do!

I guess to answer your question "what can I say to NOT get him in trouble." I would say there is nothing you can do. Cops are pretty good at smelling a liar. The more you lie, the more they are going to think he did more than "fingering" and you will get him in more trouble - which is apparently what you want to avoid. You need to be honest - because you will not help him by lying.
As, others have said, their is a witness and your testimony might not even be needed.

Under the law, you are a minor, he is not - so there are serious consequences to his actions.

Thanks... but how can they smell a liar? They could find out that I'm lying easliy... but they can't prove that I'm lying... I could just say I was lying about the whole thing just to get attention...

Suddenly its obvious why young girls need protecting. Honey, your attitude is seriously messed up! Until you learn, probably the hard way, things like this will keep happening to you. I made the mistake of asuming you were mentally in the same place as I was at your age but you clearly are not. Everyone on here has tried to help you but all you want is someone to tell you how to lie and cheat your way out of your problem, which nobody here will do!
Hey, people I know I'm being rude but it's very hard for me to be polite when I'm under all this crap and I'm just looking for one answer to help me... and some people actually have given me good answers even though you just said no one would do that...

Well then that would just be stupid and you will get in trouble for lying. They do prosecute people for lying... it is called giving false information... either way someone is going to get in trouble!

That does not excuse your attitude. Other people are trying to help and you are being rude... that is not okay.. you will learn that when you mature. You will learn that you don't have to be rude to get an answer, and that actually if you are asking advice you should be grateful that people are taking time out of their day to help you. You just need to face the music... part of growing up is accepting the consequences of your actions. And the consequences are either you getting in trouble or your 20 yr old friend getting in trouble. There is no way to get out of this.

thanks....but how can they smell a liar? they could find out that i'm lying easliy....but they can't prove that i'm lying.....i could just say i was lying about the whole thing just to get attention.....

It is now very obvious you are 15, if it wasn't obvious before. LOL

Yes, they can prove you are lying, they have their ways and they have their tactics. They KNOW how to make people slip up.

With that said, I quitely unsbscrube to this thread as it is also obvious this is a girl who does not want help and only wants attention of one form or another.

No use wasting our time over this anymore as nothing we can say will make a difference, she has her mind made up.

thanks....but how can they smell a liar? they could find out that i'm lying easliy....but they can't prove that i'm lying.....i could just say i was lying about the whole thing just to get attention.....

The police are trained to spot a liar. By the way you look at them, hold yourself, how you express yourself. They have seen everything - so, it would be hard to get anything past them.
Plus, it doesn't matter what you say. Whether you wanted this to happen or not, you are 15 and he is 20 - a line was crossed - he broke the law. It doesn't matter if you consented or not - he, as an adult, should have know better.
So, you can get yourself in trouble by lying - false statement, etc. So, if you realize now that you can not get him out of trouble - maybe you can save yourself.

Everyone does make mistakes the best thing to do is to be honest with everyone the cops your parents it will work out for the best in the long run and plus you will feel so much better telling the truth. But I do think you are a little young to be messing around sexually and what was the 20 year old thinking they should have known better they are older. Next time just be smarter don't worry about sex you are to young to have to deal with the other risks and responsibilities it brings like aids stds and pregnancy.

Doesn't matter what we asy to this girl. She has her mind made up. Notice that she said she will be hanging around with him again soon.

Sooo, we are wasting our "breath."

I am going to follow J_9's advice and unsubscribe from this thread also. I refuse to take my precious time.. time that I could be spending with my family to try to help someone who dosen't want my help or appriacte it. Good-bye sweetblood and I hope you the best.. although the way you are going now.. they may not happen... as for the rest of you see you in other threads... have a great day!

I am going to follow J_9's advice and unsubscribe from this thread also. I refuse to take my precious time..time that I could be spending with my family to try to help someone who dosen't want my help or appriacte it. Good-bye sweetblood and I hope you the best..although the way you are going now..they may not happen...as for the rest of you see you in other threads...have a great day!


You people can unsubscribe, I never forced you people to answer this question... you just realized now that your giving me answers I'm not looking for... and that your now not answering anymore.so thanks and bye to all of you

You must realize that if nothing else, the people on this forum give their HONEST opinions. Most people will not supply you with a guide on lying.
I am sorry you have taken such offense to the responses you have received and in turn became defensive and rude to those trying to offer a little help.
With living, comes life experiences. We know that you will not be able to get out of this by lying.
We know that if the school and police know - then your parents know. And we know what the laws are when it comes to a 20 year old touching a 15 year old.
The advice you have been given is for YOUR benefit - how you can walk away from this in the best case scenario.
It is a shame you have turned these people away - just because you don't like what you hear. You have gotten yourself in an impossible situation. Please re-read the answers as to what you should do next.
Good Luck to you.

Ok, so I read all of the replys to this thread, and I want to see if I can help. I am a school counselor and I run into issues like this often. To me, it sounds like this guy did disrespect you. I think you would agree to that. He also humiliated you. Embarrassed you. And disresepcted you in a sexual way. Now, in my opinion, he did a lot more, but I think you would agree to my statements so far, right?
Well, I hear you saying that he is sorry... and that he has treated you better than other people in your past. And you might be right! BUt I am going to try and answer your questions as best as I can so you understand...
1. there is nothing you can do to not get him in trouble at this point. He made a mistake... one that he knew was wrong before he did it! And even if he is sorry, that doesn't mean the law does not apply. I mean, if your mom gets in a car accident, hit someone on purpose, do you think the police will say "oh well, you were sorry?" nope! The laws don't work that way... and I am sorry you have to learn at such a young age that you don't always have control. I know that at your age, you want to have control and independence over your life and your actions, but we all are subject to the law, including me, you, and this boy! And trust me, he knew better... he knew he was disresepcting you, and he is sorry he got caught! So there is nothing you can do to not get him in trouble...
2. please please please hear me... do not protect him by lying... if you truly think that with your true story, that he is not a bad person, great! Then the police will hear your true story and agree with you right? He is sorry, he didn't mean it... blah blah blah! I don't buy it, but if you really in your heart think that he didn't do anything wrong, then just tell the truth and others will believe you. My guess, is that the police will see a different situation... one that is more mature, one that you can't see right now. I know you want to be an adult and all grown up, but unfortunately right now you are not yet! You are not capable of making the choices that are right for you in some extreme cases such as these. And I am asking you to be grateful for that. You don't need this on your shoulders.
And also, please hear me... one more time! :) Being treated BETTER doesn't mean you are being treated how you deserve. I know better makes you want to go towards it, but it doesn't mean it is good enough. I mean, he knows he is in trouble and you are not supposed to be around him, and that is continuing to be disrespectful, knowing it can get you in more trouble. Please think before you act... there are even better guys out there! TRUST ME! :)
I hope this helps you out, and not on the defensive and with an attitude. I do hear what you are saying, and I am sorry to say that your job right now is to just tell the truth... and let what is supposed to happen, happen! :) You will get through it...
I suggest you talk to the school counselor again and let them help you through it... or find an adult you can trust... your mom or whoever, even if it is hard! It will be, but it will be to your benefit in the long run... :)

Sweet Blood you seriously need to grow up and mature! I was in a relationship just as I turned 16 and am nearly 19 now and with the same guy.It seems like you and this guy are just playing games like children. People have tried to help but you are too immature to listen. You were rude and it doesn't matter how much C**P is going on it isn't exceptable to be rude!

I also agree. It would be totally irresponsible for us to give you the answers you were looking for. Good bye and good luck x

It makes no sense why bring the cops into the situation if you don't have a problem with it

Because she is under age she is 15. The man is 20. If you think that it is acceptable for a 20 year old man to finger a 15 year old girl then that is your opinion but some people on here find that wrong.

LuvMyMaltipoo I wasn't trying to be horrible to her but she asked for help and people gave it, she didn't like what was said so was rude to the people that had helped her. She shouldn't be taking part in sexual contact if she can't handle the consequences, therefore I was voicing my opinon and don't see why I should 'give her a break'

I know what it is like to be that age it wasn't that long ago that I was 15 and did things I wasn't proud off. But I wasn't rude to people because they didn't give me the answers I wanted.

Well to SweetBlood I wish you luck and do hope this problem can be sorted out.
Good Luck
All the best
X

it makes no sense why bring the cops into the situation if you dont have a problem with itUnless she lives in South Carolina where I believe the law is 14 (age of consent) and the only state to my knowledge which is that low then laws have been broken.

Here is a link to that chart.

Age of Consensual Sex in the USA (http://www.coolnurse.com/consent.htm)

I just want to say thanks to the people that have helped me and in case any one is interested that jerk is now trying to date me... I told him that there is no way that he is serious and that it is pointless to even try asking me, also, I said why would a 20 yr old be interested in a 15 yr old for any other reason other than sex?.

i just want to say thanks to the people that have helped me and in case any one is interested that jerk is now trying to date me....i told him that there is no way that he is serious and that it is pointless to even try asking me, also, i said why would a 20 yr old be interested in a 15 yr old for any other reason other than sex?.....Great... when you are twenty as well this will make even more sense to you. Nobody here wants to give you bad advice. There is a vast difference between 15 and 20, and its far more than just the 5 years. And example would be what would a 15 year old boy want to do with a 10 year old girl. That has more similarities than you think and may be far easier to relate to.

Matt3046 agrees: Not in West Virginia as long as you are at least second cousins
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