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sanjaykuma
May 11, 2015, 10:57 AM
Sir I have a q
I like much more a girl who has been very close friend me since last 2 month and I hv finally got madly laove with her right now
She also chating wit me till late night everyday
But now a days she finally close everything
Like chating/watsup/calling
She told me that she want to being single
An now a days I have going to finally in extreem depresion
Frustation

Please hell me sir
How to recover from this

Precious7
May 11, 2015, 11:09 AM
Hi Sanjay,
You really can't force anyone to love you. And she has already told you clearly that she wants to be single. Then respect individuals decision and let her go. Don't get frustrate because its not the end of the world. You are going to have more opportunities in your life for a "love" relationship. Ss. Keep your focus on the present important things in your life and the things you want to achieve in your future. Let it go and Focus, that's how you recover.

talaniman
Jul 16, 2015, 07:29 AM
You met her, you will meet others, and fall madly in love again. We all do, and recover from rejections every time.

smoothy
Jul 16, 2015, 01:51 PM
Sir I have a q
I like much more a girl who has been very close friend me since last 2 month and I hv finally got madly laove with her right now
She also chating wit me till late night everyday
But now a days she finally close everything
Like chating/watsup/calling
She told me that she want to being single
An now a days I have going to finally in extreem depresion
Frustation

Please hell me sir
How to recover from this

Sorry... but that's not love... that's nothing more than infatuation, or lust (meaning its hormone driven, nothing more) something we call, leaving the little head do your thinking rather than your big head.. In two months even if she did reciprocate... (something she did not ) you barely know her.

I'm guessing you are very young. As was mentioned... you leave this one alone and move on with your life. There is nothing worse than being the target of someone's unwanted affection, even worse when you tell them you don't feel the same way and they don't respect your feelings.

There will be others. That's a fact of life. Yes it will hurt... but this is an important life lesson to learn, but you will get over it.

1. Your affections will not always be returned. And 2. You don't plan the rest of your life with someone until you have gotten to know them for several years and know they feel the same way.