So I recently started working and I met this girl I didn't really think much of it at all in the start but after we really talked we kind of kicked it off to the point where we both told each other that we really like each other. Since then she's been coming over to my house to hang out and she invited herself to sleep over and I didn't know that she was going to until I asked if she was. She has a boyfriend and has been with him for 4 years and is currently pregnant by him, but tells me that if she wasn't with him that she would be dating me. We hang out more than they do because I have a car and he doesn't.

A few days ago she was over with me and my friend and my friend told her that I had sex with a girl and she immediately started asking me if it was true of course I didn't want to admit it because I like her so I kind of tried to dodge the question but she laid on top of me and held my face and kept asking if I did ( of course I didn't give her a real answer) and then she grabbed my D*** and kept asking. I finally admitted that I did and she backed off and turned around on my bed to face the wall and get on her phone. I asked her later when I was taking her home if she was jealous and she told me that she wasn't only that she was mad because I didn't tell her?

I don't know this is the only reason I signed on to ask because I'm really confused. I like her she likes me but she has a boyfriend and a baby on the way I feel like I should move on because I don't want to cause problems if she is happy with who she is with and I don't want to be stuck hoping for something only to be disappointed in the end. Should I move on? Or should I try to do something about it? And if I do need to move on would it be best to keep talking to her or let her know that its better if we stop talking for a while until I can clear my head? Please help me this is the first time I've been in this situation (Sorry about the grammar I'm just trying to figure this out)

Get as far away from this as quickly as possible. Do not talk to her any more. There are red flags all over the place here. How old are the two of you?
What would possibly make you think you would want to stay with this girl who is dating and pregnant by another guy but sleeping with you and grabs you by your d*** to get answers from you?
Run as fast as you can!

Good chance she's just an opportunist, keeping you as a spare. Pregnant women can get desperate, knowing that they will soon be helpless for the most part. A boyfriend with no car? How's he going to even run out for diapers in the middle of the night?

Exactly... She's an opportunist looking for a sugardaddy to latch onto to pay her bills... If you have half a brain drop her right now, get and stay as far away from her as possible.

I've seen ones like her before... you have no idea what kind of trouble and grief she can and will cause you. If she's fooling around with you, she's probably fooling around with others too, and will be fooling around on you as well.

If you are lucky you will get away without losing anything or contracting HOV, Herpes, AIDS or anything else. Hang around you have one or more of those in store for you.

If she's knocked up its obvious she doesn't use protection, its obvious she sleeps around, and how do you know what any of those people might have, that you will get next.

Wow really? Been used much?

LOL, live and learn, move on, and tell this story in a few years as a learning experience.

Do you really want to get involved with a girl who has already shown you how she treats a boyfriend? No doubt he thinks she is faithful, but she has proven that she isn't. You don't even have to wonder if she would be or not... you already know the truth.

Open your eyes to what you would have to look forward to!

Think of it this way... If your friend came to you with the same situation, would you honestly tell him, "yes, go for it, she sounds like a great catch"... or would you ask him "what are you thinking???"

She doesn't ask me for money and she knows I wouldn't pay for anything besides she's always buying me food and giving me gas she doesn't sleep around she had sex with her boyfriend and got pregnant by him and they've been together for 4 years I have been thinking about that and its true I would be upset if she did that to me sleeping over at another guys house when your in a relationship is not OK. I know she doesn't sleep around for a fact but that doesn't really matter I just wanted to see if other people thought the same thing I did. She's 18 I'm 21

In the words of Scar "Run away, /chalupa8585/. Run. Run away, and never return."

You seem to be a friend, and distraction from her situation, and she uses you at will because you are too confused to stop it. Notions of love and romance dance in your head, and that's the problem, NOT the girl. You are way too available to this girl, and she has taken over your life, and you better stop letting her. It's you who blur the lines of friendship and romance and put yourself in this confusing situation, and only you can put an end to it.

She knows you like her, and uses that to wrap you around her fingers as she is quite aggressive in that area, and you could really stand to limit this contact and be far less available to her. The part that escapes you is how she treats her long term boyfriend that she is pregnant by, and how she has come to dominate YOUR life and thoughts.

Stop the sleep overs PERIOD!!!!! That would be a great start to reclaim your common sense and ending YOUR confusion over romance and friendship, since romance would be rather stupid at this point in time wouldn't it?

She has a boyfriend to deal with and you need to let her. If you cannot stay within the boundaries of good behavior, then there is NO CHOICE but to completely REMOVE yourself from this situation.

She hasn't asked for anything... YET. Its coming however... that type aren't stupid, they know how to manipulate people to get what they want. They go out of their way to show you they aren't after money or help, to get you to lower your defenses... then wham.

We've been around long enough to have seen more than one like this... This is just your first so you don't see it yet.