What's the best to get over being dumped? And she made it pretty clear she doesn't want to see me anymore. So I really want to avoid making a desperate phone call...

It sucks being dumped, especially when you still like the person! The best advice I can give you is tell yourself that you are wonderful and even though there was no connection this time, you will find it. Keep yourself busy take it hour by hour and I'm sure you'll do fine!

Hang out with yourself for a few days and think about the good things the 2 of you had and the not so good. As the saying goes - "absence makes the heart grow fonder and also forget". Give it time and you'll feel like you can go out and meet the person who is right for you and you for her.

I'm about to make a BIG fool of myself... BUT I DON"T CARE... like they say with great chances comes great rewards... so wish me luck...

Go for it... I remember when "i had butterflies in my stomach"... it's a memory one can never forget... :)

What's the big chance? Do tell!


Butter flys are great. Just be CONFIDENT!!

Just normal butter flies from asking someone out... still waiting for a response...

SHE SAID NO... I gave it a honest effort.. her loss

Hi,
Do you know her mailing address?
Since she said no, not all is lost.
If you want to, why not send her a card?
Girls love to get cards, or even some flowers!
Best of luck,
fredg
PS; Of course, the other option is as you have done so far; just chalk it up as "I got over my nervousness, and will move on"!
Congratulations on asking her.

She told me she is seeing someone... I'm going to leave it at that, don't want to become creepy... her loss

Yes -don't come across creepy - but, I've heard many a woman say - "he didn't try hard enough"

You have planted a small seed - relationships take time.

There is ALWAYS another guy.

I feel like going home...

I Miss Her :(

What happened?

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