I started wearing and needing a traing bra when I was 10 and now I'm 12 and whenever I wear my training bra it wrinkles up when I put it on. Does that mean I need a size A now? Please answer :0

The best person to as would be your mother.

Wrinkling up usually means that there's excess material. In other words, you're not filling it up and the extra material that isn't being used to cover you, is wrinkling up because it's not stretched out.

Time to talk to mom, and get a fitting done. But from what you say, it sounds like you may need a smaller cup size to avoid the wrinkling from the excess material.

Good luck. :)

Thanks I thinks that's wha it is I needa adjust itt

Thanks I thinks that's wha it is I needa adjust itt

I have been wearing a training bra since fourth grade and I'm in sixth grade still wearing one and whenever I wear a training bra or an undershirt I can still see my little breasts poking through the shirt. I've got everything in puberty from hair to periods how do I stop this from happening? Do I need a better bra? Please answer I'm even getting comments at school about it. Keep in mind I'm 12 years old. :/

Time to talk to your mom.

As stated before, it's time to talk to your mother about this. Have you done that?

Advice given is only good if it's followed.

Your mom can help you solve this very easily.

I have been wearing a training bra since 10 years old and I am 12 years old now. I can't really fit a cup size bra at all... but every time I wear a training bra or undershirt... I can see my "developing noobs," underneath my shirt. It's gross and at school people always mention it. My breast has tooken its shape and I have a little bit of tissue but all I have is a breast bud that can't even fit into a full size bra.? But training bras are too small. Btw I'm kind of like at stage three of breast development. Confused. Need help. Please answer. What do I do?

Talk to your mother.. Because she's you mother and she's been through this stage herself.

I have been wearing a training bra since 10 years old and I am 12 years old now. I can't really fit a cup size bra at all... but every time I wear a training bra or undershirt... I can see my "developing noobs," underneath my shirt. It's gross and at school people always mention it. My breast has tooken its shape and I have a little bit of tissue but all I have is a breast bud that can't even fit into a full size bra.? But training bras are too small. Btw I'm kind of like at stage three of breast development. Confused. Need help. Please answer. What do I do?

I thought we had talked about bras before. The answer, as Smoothy said, is still talk to your mother. She is the one who can see what the issue is and take you to the store to find appropriate sizes and styles.

By the way, you do not need to keep making new threads about bras. Just add to this one. Thanks.

You have posted 3 times over the last 4 months with the same issue. Each time you have been advised to talk to your mother. Have you? Have you gone to try on bras to find one that fits?

Asking for advice is no good if you don't follow the advice

Do you have money to buy a bra? Can you go to the store yourself and get the bra? At 12 years of age I'm guessing you can't. So who's going to have to go with you to the store and buy the bra? Your mom or your dad!

Until you talk to them about this issue, you will get nowhere. It's been 4 months now. The advice we give won't change just because you keep asking about the same thing. At 12 years of age you cannot buy a bra yourself, you can't go to the store yourself. You will have to talk to your mom about this, and if she decides you don't need a new bra, well that's her decision, she's your parent, and what she says goes. There's really nothing anyone online can do to help you get the bra you want. Only mom and dad can do that. So talk to them.

Good luck. :)

One suggestion... check out sports bras. Many young girls prefer them over the typical training bra. Try different styles on under a t-shirt when you shop so that you will know what shows and what doesn't.

I second the sport bra suggestion. You need one that is thicker. Another thing that can help is to get a beige bra instead of white for light colored clothes because it matches your skin better. You can also but a thin tank top to wear under tshirts with your bra. The fabric just need to be thicker. Even a perfectl for bra that is to thin will show nipples in some clothes.

Suspicion that this might be a troll.

Not sure about this being a troll. My daughter is 12 now, and she's starting to develop. She's having a hard time with it. Breast buds that look awkward with anything she wears, being teased because she's getting breasts but they're not really breasts yet.

For a long time I gave the kids that came here, a hard time about wanting a padded training bra. I thought they just wanted to look like they had bigger breasts. Not the case. The padding hides the buds, it makes you look more... normal? It's not a lot of padding, it's just enough to hide the buds, give your breasts some shape instead of having to deal with two little pokey buds that are embarrassing.

Even with the padded training bras, my daughter doesn't actually have breasts. But she's hiding the breasts that are growing now, but aren't actually grown. If that makes sense. So now she can wear a t-shirt and not feel self conscious. She can wear a summer dress and not feel awkward.

But, and this is important, when she started feeling uncomfortable she came to me, and we talked, and she told me why she felt uncomfortable, and we came up with a solution together.

She's 12, she can't drive to the store and buy her own bras, or clothes, or anything. It's up to me, or her dad.

In other words, the only advice that we can give this poster, is to talk to her parents. They're the ones that can listen, and decided what to do, and take her to the store to get what she needs. That's the only option she has. No one on this site can take the place of her parents.

Having lived through a daughter going through puberty, I totally agree with Alty's response here.

Girl's do develop differently. Some develop pokey buds first (see Natalie Portman in The Professional) others develop mounds first. Buds can be embarrassing and that's what the padding in teen bras is meant for.

Buds suck, and I wasn't very sympathetic before because that's not how I developed, but that's how my daughter is developing.

So she has training bras with a tiny bit of padding, enough to hide the pokey buds so she can wear shirts, and not feel self conscious about it.

It's hard being young. For girls it's really hard. Our bodies don't always develop the way we want them to. But you all are lucky. When I was a young pre-teen/teen, we didn't have the things you all have now. There were no padded training bras. You just lived with having buds, and normally you just wore really baggy shirts or sweaters, which wasn't always ideal, especially in the summer.

Fact is, no matter how much you ask strangers about this, we can't take you to the store and buy you what you need. Only mom and dad can do that. It's their choice. But do tell them why you want what you're asking for. Explain it to them. Especially mom. She's a girl, and she should remember what it felt like when she was starting to develop. :)