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xxcateyesxx
Feb 23, 2015, 12:21 PM
Hi I was forced into having abortion by my husband at 7.3 weeks pregnant I can't forgive him for this I really wanted that baby and we had sex 4-5 days after I had a negative test 5 days ago and now I have had 9 positive test am I pregnant again only to a half weeks since please help I won't be telling him if I am

CravenMorhead
Feb 23, 2015, 01:41 PM
Holy crap there is a bunch of stuff here that's happening that has nothing to do with the baby. Chances are you're not pregnant. You're probably still clearing out the last pregnancy. Your doctor should have told you not to have intercourse for at least 3 weeks after the abortion. You shouldn't be having sex. The positive test pregnancy tests are probably still from the aborted pregnancy.

Now, why did your husband FORCE you to have an abortion? Have you two had the child talk? If your views are so different that you're going to force a child on him, then you REALLY need to reconsider your marriage. I am not saying that you kowtow to him, but you need to have a conversation. Your life goals and REALLY different and this could tear your marriage apart. Especially with a child on the way this is NOT a wise idea. Please talk to your husband, you need to for your own sanity.

ma0641
Feb 23, 2015, 03:48 PM
Where are you that he "Forced you".

Fr_Chuck
Feb 24, 2015, 02:48 AM
Unless you live in some third world nation, he can not force you. He can threaten you, but once at the clinic, if you say no, they will not do it.

It sounds like you are afraid of him, and do not want to tell him no. You need to consider what you can do, to get out of the house and to a place of safety, to make some life choices.