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Thinkaboutit
Nov 24, 2014, 09:08 AM
Last night I went down stairs to ask me dad something before I came all the way down I heard me dad and step mum talking about me. I know I shouldn't have listened but I couldn't help it. They said some pretty hurtful things which I probably deserved but I just can't stop thinking about how me step mum said she couldn't handle having me here. I know I've done some wrong things but I've been really good I haven't done anything bad I've listen to everything they have asked me to do I haven't complained once or argued with them. I don't know what else I could have done to make them happy. Me mum already sent me to live with me dad because stuff happened with us if me dad doesn't want me where do I go. I just don't understand what happened I haven't done anything else wrong. I don't know if I should talk to them and I'm kind of scared to just don't know what to do
Homegirl 50
Nov 24, 2014, 09:18 AM
I'm sorry you are going through this. Did your dad stand up for you?
Maybe you should tell your dad you over heard the conversation and ask him what is wrong.
Thinkaboutit
Nov 24, 2014, 09:23 AM
I don't really know I kind of didn't listen anymore I was upset. I think I might just leave give them some space maybe me mum will let me stay there or someone else I think I'm not much for them too much trouble. :(
Homegirl 50
Nov 24, 2014, 09:55 AM
It could be your dad talked to her and things are fine.
That's kind of the thing about eavesdropping, unless you hear it all, you don't really know what's going on.
I really hope things work out and you can stay with your dad.
Thinkaboutit
Nov 24, 2014, 03:12 PM
I just feel really bad now I don't want to be a problem for them. I thought I was being OK doing everything they asked of me I know what I did would have been horrible for them to deal with I didn't realise until I listen to them talking just how angry they were.
Homegirl 50
Nov 24, 2014, 05:30 PM
Parents get angry but they get over it. Things will work out.
We are here for you.
Fr_Chuck
Nov 24, 2014, 11:30 PM
It is tough, but you need to sit down and talk to your dad, about what is going on.
Also, some adult conversations, you should not be hearing,
I just got married in August. My assumption was my son (14) would be living with his mother, that was what was agreed.
But it did not happen, and my 14 year old is living with me now. My new wife is not really happy about it, not that my son does anything wrong, but she was not epecting to have to help take care of him full time,
It has caused a lot of problems around my house. My wife and I , may have had conversations, just like the one you heard.
But the issue is, you do not know, how it all ended. Your step mom and dad, needed to be honest with each other, but not always for things you should hear.