Mahi994
Nov 19, 2014, 08:29 AM
Hi
I have been in relationship with a guy for 8 years from now .
We both have played quite a devil's role in each ones life..
During the first 3 years I had cheated on him and so has he.. we both got past that and got back together. Ever since then I have always been honest to him..
But off lately he has cheated on me 4-5 times ( that I know - when I say cheat I mean flirt with others telling others he is single etc etc.. lying to me that he is somewhere when he is with other girls etc )
He still says he loves me and he wants to be with me.. I am also still with me but this question keeps hunting me if I should break up.. I am not sure if I love him still I do care for him a lot though..
The main problem when I try to analysis if I should break up or not is that we both are financially dependent on each other . I have taken a couple of loans because of him and still paying off the emi's my credit card bills are really high with both of us spending..
So not sure if I decide to break up how to deal with the financial matters
I have been in relationship with a guy for 8 years from now .
We both have played quite a devil's role in each ones life..
During the first 3 years I had cheated on him and so has he.. we both got past that and got back together. Ever since then I have always been honest to him..
But off lately he has cheated on me 4-5 times ( that I know - when I say cheat I mean flirt with others telling others he is single etc etc.. lying to me that he is somewhere when he is with other girls etc )
He still says he loves me and he wants to be with me.. I am also still with me but this question keeps hunting me if I should break up.. I am not sure if I love him still I do care for him a lot though..
The main problem when I try to analysis if I should break up or not is that we both are financially dependent on each other . I have taken a couple of loans because of him and still paying off the emi's my credit card bills are really high with both of us spending..
So not sure if I decide to break up how to deal with the financial matters