Dukeofpasta
Nov 2, 2014, 09:27 AM
This girl I met at a party became unusually interested in me. We started talking and went out on a date, but sometimes she seems very clingy a lot of the time.
I recently discovered her last boyfriend was emotionally and physically abusive and raped her. She seems over the trauma part of it, but says she feels worthless, no man will love her because of it, and doesn't deserve to live. I asked her if she would go to a therapist and apparently I'm one of if not the only of a small amount of people she's told about this. I cannot tell anyone, but she said she 'told on him' and feels bad about it. That she deserved the beatings. I don't know if he's in jail or not. He beat her when she did anything he didn't like and repeatedly told her she was worthless, that no other man would take her, stuff like that.I tell her she's beautiful every day, but she never believes me. She refuses to tell her parents or go to a therapist, so I stopped pushing it at all.
I do not want her feeling dependent on me because I want her to be happy with herself. Don't get me wrong, I like this girl a lot and my opinion of her did not lower because she was raped. But I don't want to be a band-aid on this wound.
I recently discovered her last boyfriend was emotionally and physically abusive and raped her. She seems over the trauma part of it, but says she feels worthless, no man will love her because of it, and doesn't deserve to live. I asked her if she would go to a therapist and apparently I'm one of if not the only of a small amount of people she's told about this. I cannot tell anyone, but she said she 'told on him' and feels bad about it. That she deserved the beatings. I don't know if he's in jail or not. He beat her when she did anything he didn't like and repeatedly told her she was worthless, that no other man would take her, stuff like that.I tell her she's beautiful every day, but she never believes me. She refuses to tell her parents or go to a therapist, so I stopped pushing it at all.
I do not want her feeling dependent on me because I want her to be happy with herself. Don't get me wrong, I like this girl a lot and my opinion of her did not lower because she was raped. But I don't want to be a band-aid on this wound.