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Skinn
Apr 7, 2007, 10:40 PM
I'm just wondering, is there a difference in having sex with a guy with a circumsized penis than a guy who wasn't circumsized? If so what's the difference?

EnglishRose
Apr 9, 2007, 09:53 AM
Not a huge difference really. I guess some women may prefer it cosmetiacally but you can't feel it. There are some sexual things you can only do to a man who has been. If I had a choice I'd go with circumsided but I don't think its important enough for the pain it must involve as an adult. It's a lot less common in England. It sgood for hygene though so some parents make that choice for you. It isn't something you should be worried about.

alkalineangel
Apr 9, 2007, 10:47 AM
Cleanliness... no, nothing really. At least not for the normal functions...

MummaCrash
Jun 2, 2007, 07:22 AM
Saying that circumcised men are cleaner is a lie.

A mans hygiene is not based on how their designed.

A lot of parents make the mistake with their newborn un-circed baby boys by pulling back the forskin and scrubbing to ensure cleanliness, the problem with that is their risking higher chance of infection therefore many parents end up having to resort to having their child circumcised because of the infection.

A grown man however should be concerned about their cleanliness, they can pull the foreskin back and scrub, well maybe not scrub but they can clean.

I have been with an uncirced guy and the top of his penis was larger and it was much harder to insert when having sex but my partner now is circumcised and his is not as hard to insert. Yes there is a difference.

Studies definitely show that men who are circumcised experience less pleasure then uncircumcised men. Either way it's going to feel good for both parties but it's just something that people take into consideration.

Personally- circed/uncirced. Who cares, cleanliness comes from each party, I would like for my partner to remain clean as I remain clean for him.
I like my circed man but I still wonder what it would be like for him if he was still intact.

In the end, circumcision is unnecessary, we don't circumcise girls. We were made the way our genetics intended.
But I do understand circumcising for medical related problems

shygrneyzs
Jun 2, 2007, 07:42 AM
I don't see where this makes a huge difference either. You have what nature gave you, the design must be in place for a good reason.

honey2700
Jun 3, 2007, 03:58 PM
I think it makes a difference. A circumcized penis to me is better. I find it feels weird with it not. At first I never noticed but when my boyfriend pulls the skin back when its inside of me I notice a huge difference and it feels better. I find it gets in the way and you have to play with it different because it hurts them when you pull the skin all the way down. I like it when there circumcized better because its CLEANER (which is true because stuff builds up back there no matter how often they clean it) it feels better and it looks sooooooo much better.

Xrayman
Jun 3, 2007, 05:35 PM
its CLEANER (which is true because stuff builds up back there no matter how often they clean it)

Sorry Honey, you are wrong. When you grow/own one-come and discuss it with me. "Cleanliness" you describe can apply equally to women and their vulvas, if you don't wash-it is unclean.

If your boyfriend does not wash properly or regularly, ths does not mean that ALL men/boys are like him.

honey2700
Jun 3, 2007, 06:08 PM
sorry Honey, you are wrong. When you grow/own one-come and discuss it with me. "Cleanliness" you describe can apply equally to women and their vulvas, if you don't wash-it is unclean.

If your bf does not wash properly or regularly, ths does not mean that ALL men/boys are like him.
When your smart talk to me. I asked a doctor. They are dirtier when there not cicumsized maybe not a big difference but they are. What does it matter to you anyway. Mind your business

danielnoahsmommy
Jun 3, 2007, 06:11 PM
The only thing I heard is that un circ have a higher chance of acquiring cancer and HIV

Xrayman
Jun 3, 2007, 09:40 PM
When your smart talk to me. I asked a doctor. They are dirtier when there not cicumsized maybe not a big difference but they are. What does it matter to you anyways. Mind your bussiness

Honey,
Was the "Doctor" pro-circumcision? Was the doctor uncircumcised?
If we were to all go by the cleanliness debate-then we should circumcise girls as well using your argument-this is utterly ludicrious.

It matters to me when you state things that are incorrect, misinformed and wrong. A question was posed. I try to answer all questions as correctly as possible, I believe that you should do the same.

Please take your time to digest what I have stated, then perhaps you may understand that I am trying to provide good, honest and informed information.


P.S. I am not smart talk to you.

Cheers

DocWill
Jun 4, 2007, 12:50 AM
I wonder if modern medicine has afforded us with a circumcised penis to have a reversal. Skin grafting and wound care is much more manageable than years past. JUst think if that was possible! We could experience both aspects of sex. I am not at all upset for mums discission for the snip and clip I received aesthetically speaking, just a little curious is all.

MummaCrash
Jun 4, 2007, 03:01 AM
Sorry but, circumcising a penis for merely fashionable reasons is just immoral and pathetic.
*Rolls eyes*

There are Doctors out there that have performed a circumcision on a newborn where they have actually cut deeper then the foreskin.
There are Doctors out there that are performing circumcision unlicensed.
Don't believe EVERYTHING a Doctor tells you.
You have every right to enlighten yourself with information.
The best thing you can do for your child is research.
Circumcising is removal of a natural part of a boys manhood.
We don't remove our little girls clitoris, (note: I do realise in some countries this does take place).
BUT- We don't remove our ears at birth just because we can't be bothered keeping them clean or simply educating our children of proper hygiene.
We don't castrate our boys at birth, why should we remove their foreskin?

Circumcision (http://www.shaunamama.citymaker.com/page/page/4213740.htm)

wreckingboy: Mutilation Nation (http://www.livejournal.com/users/wreckingboy/318545.html)


If I hear one more, "Oh circumcising cures cancer", or "oh circumcising is cleaner". Or "oh circumcising is more fashionable".

I'm going to vomit all up in here.
Those are lies and it's just an excuse for a parent to not bathe their child properly.

Correct-
Take warm bath water + soap + boy = cleaned.
Take warm bath water + soap + girl = cleaned.

Incorrect-
Take warm bath water + scrub brush + uncirced/circed boy= clean

Yaddaa yadda yadda..
*sigh*
I'm honestly beginning to think parents are circing their baby boys just for an excuse.

DocWill
Jun 4, 2007, 03:17 AM
Im sure we are inches from resolving this debate. A great poll brought up by all here! Lets keep it up. I feel we are coming to an answer very soon.

MummaCrash
Jun 5, 2007, 08:29 AM
Comments on this post
Xrayman agrees: Thank you very much Mumma! The link to wreckingboy is amazing.

You're very welcome Xrayman! I applaud the man who is repsonsible for it. :)

bumblebee1
Jun 8, 2007, 10:05 AM
I've never had sex with someone who was uncircumsized. Not that I wouldn't like it, its just that majority of males in america are circumsized. Personally, I think that the natural look of uncircumsized is more attractive. I woudn't know the difference in feeling though.

saraispiel19
Jun 8, 2007, 10:13 AM
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lost_in_my_thoughts
Aug 21, 2007, 06:48 AM
im just wondering, is there a difference in having sex with a guy with a circumsized penis than a guy who wasn't circumsized? if so whats the difference?
Ok look I gree on some of the answers. Either way it doesn't matter to me. However some women may prefer to have a man that is circumcised. And yes there is sometimes build up under the skin. BUT IT DOES NOT[U]MEAN THE MAN IS DIRTY! MY boy friend works in the heat and he cleans himself thourly(sorry can't spell) before he goes to work and were he sweats so much and is out in the elements when he gets home from work he has the build up so whoever said they are dirtier don't dicourage people that aren't circed.

margarita_momma
Aug 21, 2007, 07:33 AM
im just wondering, is there a difference in having sex with a guy with a circumsized penis than a guy who wasn't circumsized? if so whats the difference?


Okay back to the ORIGINAL question. I have been with 1 uncircumsized guy and the rest have been circumsized. I didn't really notice a difference in them. It felt the same as far as sex goes. Giving oral to an uncircumsized guy is a little different but its just as good as giving it to a circumsized guy. :D

jessyka_22
Sep 6, 2007, 01:21 PM
Well an un circomsized is shorter some times and curves and a circomsized is longer harder and well gets the job done

Ferzine
Sep 6, 2007, 03:22 PM
Been with both & enjoyed both but in my experience (and other women I know) un-circed men are NOT nearly as clean! Can be pretty nasty actually. I prefer the circed look as well.

ang8318
Sep 14, 2007, 10:28 AM
Honey,
was the "Doctor" pro-circumcision? was the doctor uncircumcised?
If we were to all go by the cleanliness debate-then we should circumcise girls as well using your argument-this is utterly ludicrious.

It matters to me when you state things that are incorrect, misinformed and wrong. A question was posed. I try to answer all questions as correctly as possible, I believe that you should do the same.

Please take your time to digest what I have stated, then perhaps you may understand that I am trying to provide good, honest and informed information.


P.S. I am not smart talk to you.

cheers

I Agree. Being a nurse and also pregnant with a boy I have recently been reading a lot about the reasons for circumsision... Boys are only circumcised for cosmetic reasons... it was once thought that it was for hygiene purposes, but that has been proven wrong.

smoothy
Sep 14, 2007, 11:36 AM
Circumsized guys are less likely to get AIDs as well. Proven fact.

Ferzine
Sep 14, 2007, 07:05 PM
Been with both & enjoyed both but in my experience (and other women I know) un-circed men are NOT nearly as clean! Can be pretty nasty actually. I prefer the circed look as well.

Comments on this post
Xrayman disagrees: Once again. Please TRY to obtain the correct information-or sleep with cleaner types.

Excuse me but I gave my opinion with my experience as well as close women friends. It is not incorrect information, men can be unclean just as women can. Have you gone down on an uncirced guy??

americangayboy
Sep 16, 2007, 11:56 AM
I'm a huge supporter of circumcision, if for nothing else, asthetics. I doubt the validity of the studies saying intact foreskin makes the sexual experience more pleasurable. The ones I've read have focused on men who were cut in adulthood, which can't be generalized to men who were cut in infancy. Also, there is a slightly lowered rate of STI transmission and penile cancer in circumcised men (like I said, very slight, but still there).

I simply believe that circumcision's pros outweigh its cons. A lot of people disagree with me, which is cool, but if I have male children, that foreskin is out of there!

To answer the original post: I think there is a noticeable difference... especially when giving head! I MUCH prefer cut.

smoothy
Sep 17, 2007, 11:03 AM
I'm cut and can say I manage to have an extreme amount of pleasure from sex.

giani513
Sep 17, 2007, 08:28 PM
Let a circumcised man talk for a sec. Listen to the ladies... is it cleaner, healthier, blah blah blah. What if your parents made the decision when you were born to remove your clitoris? That's basically what it is for men. All the joys from clitoral stimulation... circumcised men miss out on that extra "flap" of skin and what that stimulation could have felt like. Stop being so selfish and treat your man to a little extra pleasure for the lack of foreskin that was taken away at such a young age.

Sorry... I am bitter that I never got the chance to speak up for the right to bear foreskin!

Xrayman
Sep 17, 2007, 09:01 PM
Sorry but, circumcising a penis for merely fashionable reasons is just immoral and pathetic.
*Rolls eyes*

There are Doctors out there that have performed a circumcision on a newborn where they have actually cut deeper then the foreskin.
There are Doctors out there that are performing circumcision unlicensed.
Don't believe EVERYTHING a Doctor tells you.
You have every right to enlighten yourself with information.
The best thing you can do for your child is research.
Circumcising is removal of a natural part of a boys manhood.
We don't remove our little girls clitoris, (note: I do realise in some countries this does take place).
BUT- We don't remove our ears at birth just because we can't be bothered keeping them clean or simply educating our children of proper hygeine.
We don't castrate our boys at birth, why should we remove their foreskin?

Circumcision (http://www.shaunamama.citymaker.com/page/page/4213740.htm)

wreckingboy: Mutilation Nation (http://www.livejournal.com/users/wreckingboy/318545.html)


If I hear one more, "Oh circumcising cures cancer", or "oh circumcising is cleaner". Or "oh circumcising is more fashionable".

I'm going to vomit all up in here.
Those are lies and it's just an excuse for a parent to not bathe their child properly.

Correct-
Take warm bath water + soap + boy = cleaned.
Take warm bath water + soap + girl = cleaned.

Incorrect-
Take warm bath water + scrub brush + uncirced/circed boy= clean

Yaddaa yadda yadda..
*sigh*
I'm honestly beginning to think parents are circing their baby boys just for an excuse.

This poster had the best reply to the post. Informed and logical. I would appreciate all those who love circumcision to view the links above and then see if they want to mutilate their newborn boys.

Also to the circed guy above-thanks for your input!

americangayboy
Sep 17, 2007, 09:03 PM
I'm circumcised and I'm more than OK with it. I honestly don't believe that foreskin has that much to offer. The studies (that I have read) done that suggest it enhances pleasure were done as a before-after comparison of men who had the procedure as adults. As humans grow older, their ability to replace nuerons slows so significantly that most neural damage in adults is irreversible. However, infants and young children are able to replace neurons.

I'm saying that intact foreskin is definitely not better than having it removed, I'm just saying that the studies are less than conclusive.

Xrayman
Sep 17, 2007, 09:10 PM
The original poster posed the question does it feel any different and just about NO ONE has said that it definitely FEELS better or worse-because you can't tell-It seems it is only for ashetics-a poor reply to the original post.

I think the correct answer is "NO it FEELS NO DIFFERENT". But good luck in trying to prove me wrong.

This whole discussion is really irrelevant and neither side can say which is better. I will not reply any further to this nonsense.

americangayboy
Sep 17, 2007, 09:22 PM
I just followed the link "wreckingboy: Mutilation Nation". While I agree that it is possible that leaving the foreskin intact may enhance pleasure, I hardly think we can assert that this is the case. I think the research has been misrepresented. With the technology we have, I don't think we can really study this.

I also want to point out that the author of that site claimed that it is ridiculous to suggest that removing the foreskin doesn't dull sensation because circumcised men never had the sensation to begin with. The same is true for the uncut guys out there. They don't know what it's like to be cut. This is what I mean when I say we don't know and probably won't any time soon. I don't think it appropriate to use this argument in this debate.

americangayboy
Sep 17, 2007, 09:25 PM
I think I said circumcised is better for me. Nothing against uncut guys, but I (personally) don't like it.