well i was dating this boy that was 18 his name was nick and i am and was 16 years old. well like any other teenage love i though it may could last and he could be the one for me. well while we were dating his friends and some of mine kept telling me to break up with him cause he's still in love with his ex girlfriend sherry and not me. sherry is 20 i think. and so i dont know her but she became sort of a friend of mine on myspace. we talked a bit and she also told me that nick though i was immature and wasnt in love with me that he only and still had feelings for her she said that nick told her that i was too obsessed with nick,nick and i hungout almost everyday,he kissed me like he was in love and talked sweetly to me like he was in total love.he said once we graduate hes taking me to move with him down to texas and promised me that he would never leave me because i was too precious,but i believed all for the rumors and i split up with him,he got mad,we were at school once i got to school im like ya know were done,your still in love with sherry and love her more then me u dont even love me i told him,but see he always said he did.i went to my first hour and kept thinking about wat i had done i was so depressed and confused,so i walked in the halls and noticed he wasnt in his class anymore cause his wasby mine, so i went and talked to his other friend also named nick and he was looking for nick too,i told him i wanted to talk to nick, so then nick comes out of the office cause he was signing out and cause he had his blazer that he drives and him and nick walk out the doors i grabbed nick's arm and said can we at least talk ,and he pulled me out of theway and said nothing and left,he looked very upset,but see he wasnt in love with me. when i always hung out with him he was always with nick his friend thats 17 and liked me at the time but i dont like him back so he was depressed bout that but anyways not the point see whenever i hung out with nick he always had to go down to the river and smoke sum weed with his friends, and before he said he doesnt smoke that much when actually he smokes a hell of a lot. i dont know what our love was anyways. but now im seeing this other boy named mike and we make a great couple i hang with him everyday and hes perfect for me. were planning on marrying at ages 19 and hell be 20 right after highschool we are very serious about our relationships but theres only one thing that mike doesnt know,im still sometimes finding myself thinking about nick still and i can't help it,why was i even in love with nick, so mike and i are great but now on myspace nick has been writing to me lately,asking me to get on Instant messenger to talk and asking em how my days were and hes probably dating sherry now,his ex girlfriend that i talked about earlier. there dating,and he's writing to me alot saying r u mad at me cause u never write back, i just dont get it at all.sum1 help me out. :confused:

This is the advice or statement I tell everybody in your situation. An ex is an ex for a reason.

As far as marriage is concerned, please do not rush into marriage. There is no need to rush. Just take your time.

My advice is get off myspace and do not contact this nick character at all. It is obvious that he has more problems then you can count on your hands, especially when he admits he is seeing this other girl again which you were warned about.

If you want any chanch for future with mike then you need to leave your ex, is the past. It sounds like he was your first crush, I think that is all it was.

Well anyway, best wishes to you and just remember do not contact nick and I believe you should get off myspace and no contact is best.