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james1998
Sep 28, 2014, 07:53 PM
Me and my step sister are super close. But these past few weeks we have gotten super close. It's got to the point where she called me babe. It might sound weird but we have talked about it and it does not mean we are in a relationship. We were talking like 24/7 then one day I posted on facebook I was tired of being plan B. She texted me and was like I hope that wasnt about me and I was like it wasn't I promise. Then 5 min later she said well just so you know my mom and your dad said that we can't talk during school anymore or they're gonna shut our phones off. Well we were talking on this thing called kik its like messaging but through wifi. We used that cause I did not have service at school. So when she told me that I was like I understand but I'm going to delete my kik. Then she was like ummm ok coming from the one who made me make it....

Anyways she took me wrong with all of it and now she wont really talk to me and it kind of hurts going from 24/7 to never.. Does anyone have any advice?

teacherjenn4
Sep 28, 2014, 08:04 PM
How about talking to each other in real life? I assume you see her from time to time. Talk to her when you see her and make sure you both understand why she's not talking to you. The fact that she calls you "babe" is disturbing. That's a name for someone you are dating or are married to, not your step brother.

james1998
Sep 28, 2014, 08:22 PM
The fact that she calls you "babe" is disturbing.
Yeah like I said a lot of people fine it weird, but thank you for your advice I never have tried to actually talk to her about how I feel in person...

Fr_Chuck
Sep 28, 2014, 09:53 PM
Sisters are close, then they fight, that is just natural.

Important thing, to make up and go on with life.

J_9
Sep 28, 2014, 10:09 PM
Chuck. These aren't sisters. One is a brother, the other is a sister.

joypulv
Sep 29, 2014, 01:57 AM
'IT might sound weird but we have talked about it and it does not mean we are in a relationship.'

Not clear what might be happening. I'm not surprised that your parents have put a stop to parts of it. Being step siblings is an awkward situation for the whole family. How long have you two known each other, and how old is each of you?