Hi guys I'm a 18 year old turning 19 soon, I've been seeing this guy since last year. We have had our ups and downs but this time around I feel like I'm settling for less. My boyfriend has a kid, and his baby mama seems to be in love with him, and he seems to be entertaining that too by not putting her in her place, but I kind of understand because I have my baby daddy too. Difference is to me he sure knows his place..

I haven't seen him for a month now. He's been drinking with friends, calling me when he's drunk telling me how much he misses me. What sucks is I always fall for him. I easily forgive him after him pulling those cute stunts on me, sometimes the day goes by without texting each other or calling each other.

What worries me next year I'm going to a far university. I still love him and cry over him when I'm alone but again on Facebook he uploads pictures of this one female friend with a caption that makes it obvious that they are friends but I worry because that how things started with us too :(. I've been receiving attention on Facebook from guys even at school but I'm so faithful at times I might do things that makes him to think twice about my faithfulness but I can even stand on the roof or marry him on Facebook to prove because he has been the only man that my heart fell for.

Is it possible that we can still have a healthy relationship?

When one partner is obviously more invested than the other, and add what appears to be a long distance relationship, then its really hard to have a healthy relationship with this much conflict and stress in just a year. Obviously you aren't on the same page and just as obvious you put up with a lot of crap.

Am I right about the distance between you? How much actual dating and relating in person do you actually do?