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Melll
Sep 17, 2014, 12:36 AM
My boyfriend rubbed his penis against my vagina 3 days ago. There was no ejaculation() neither did he insert his pens inside of me. My vagina has never been penetrated. My period is late and my abdomen and back hurt a little. Can I be pregnant? I took an at home pregnany test which was NEGATIVE.
Is there a chance I am pregnant?
THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT PLEASE HELP
DoulaLC
Sep 17, 2014, 02:46 AM
It would be very unlikely that you would be pregnant from what you describe, especially without penetration, ejaculation, and it being just a few days before a period was due. Keep in mind, however, no time is 100% safe all the time.
Periods can be off sometimes... you may even skip a month once in awhile.Wait another week or so, and if still no period, try a test at that time. If you need to test again, be sure to follow the directions carefully. A pregnancy won't show up on a pregnancy test just a few days after conception.
In the future, avoid any contact with his penis and you won't have to worry. If you are not ready to be engaging in that level of intimacy, it is also wise to avoid situations, such as his rubbing his penis against you, that might result in things going further than you had planned.
smoothy
Sep 17, 2014, 04:54 AM
He did this THREE DAYS AGO... and you are already freaking out? Seriously... there is absolutely NOTHING you can do right now... and in fact there is NO symptoms of a pregnancy before you are two weeks late for your next period... however far off that may be.
He did this three days ago, if that was even a day before your period was due.. that only makes you only TWO days late... which is really not late at all becasuse ALL women are going to be that late from time to time, in fact most will be far later... even females who are completely celibate.
Where do you get the idea there has to be ejaculate to get you pregnant. Its misconceptions like that which cause many poorly educated females the world over to get pregnant every day.
And as was pointed out... it can take up to 7 days after the event before a pregnancy would could occur. Are the odds great? NOt this time, but they are far higher than zero too.
You don't play these games unless you are ready to become a parent. Because someone , somewhere is doing EXACTLY what you were doing and became parents today, in the last week, in the last year, and many, many, many have over recorded history. You can just as easily be one of them.
Fr_Chuck
Sep 17, 2014, 06:36 AM
If he had any fluids, it is possible. But it takes two or three days for the sperm to reach the egg. At this point, you could not be showing, or having pregnancy signs.
It may not even have an effect on this period.
If and when you get two week late, you can try a pregnancy test then. (you are testing too early)
You may even have to wait and see if you miss the next period.